Isn't it natural that women want to be controlled?

@mari123 (1862)
China
June 16, 2007 10:49am CST
Isn't it the natual way for women to listen and obey there man?True women want this its just natural . If you disagree and you are a women you realy are a lesbian at hart not a real natual woman . Real feminine woman want real men to take care of them and make them happy Its just the way it is.
4 responses
@magica (3710)
• Bulgaria
16 Jun 07
Do you claim that the lesbians are not real woman? Actually in the woman`s nature is not rooted to be submissive and in men`s one-to be masters.I think that the real woman and the real man are partners, they co-operate, dont struggle for domination.
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@Kythe42 (1413)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Very good point there. Lesbians are real women just as much as straight women.
@olyngurl (149)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
This one is very interesting. I guess all women would want that but not that too much. Because me personally i like that. I want my boyfriend to take care of me, control me in some things. I know that he is protecting and it was proven already. He is always there for me to support me and to love me. It's a natural thing for us women that we want to be controlled by our man.. Even if we don't admit it.. We like it..
@pinks0da (328)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
Hi Mari! I'm afraid I have to disagree to that. Women has to listen to their men but that doesn't mean we have to really rely on men all the time. I am married and though I want my husband to take care of me, I never forget that I have the biggest responsibility of taking care of myself. I don't think that women has to be dependent on men in order for them to become a "true" one. If you noticed most women now are strong willed and pretty much independent, even better than some men in many aspects... So I don't see the point of relying into men in order to show that you really are a true woman.. Personally, I never put my life into anyone but myself..I am sole responsible of anything that will happen to me. And I am pretty sure that I am a 100% woman..:)
@Kythe42 (1413)
• United States
16 Jun 07
Maybe that's the way things are in your country, but if you said that to any woman in the United States, she'd probably kick your a$$, me included. I do what I want and no one controls me. I don't mind having my S/O take care of me, but he doesn't control me. It's not natural for women to be like that. In some societies, women have been conditioned to be that way, but it is not natural. Woman can have a mind of their own and be independent without being a lesbian. And there is nothing wrong with someone being gay or a lesbian to begin with.