Does being ill make you depressed?

@myfanwy65 (1030)
United States
June 16, 2007 4:03pm CST
I was diagnosed with diabetes about 6 months ago. Sometimes I get so depressed about this situation I feel like giving up. But, I don't want to have all the awful complications of diabetes, so I make myself keep at it. It's so hard, though, sometimes.
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@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
16 Jun 07
noooooooo... not at all. If it's a cold then I feel drowsy, when it's more than a cold I get angry, if it's a severe cold I become ironic, I joke a lot, I make fun of my situation and I become intentionally morose. If it's an other illness I get sleepy, don't talk a lot... but I don't think I have time to become depressed...
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@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
16 Jun 07
I wasn't talking only about diabetes... and that's not the worse illness ever... or if you get diabetes you immediately get depressed? Getting depressed it's influenced, in some way, by the time you spend alone thinking and wondering how come this horrible illness struck just me and oh how bad I'm feeling for myself... on the other side diabetes it's not related directly with time... So no, Saying I don't have time to become depressed is not like saying I don't have time to get diabetes...;)
@myfanwy65 (1030)
• United States
16 Jun 07
No, diabetes is not the worst illness in the world. I never said it was. But, it does sound as if you have never had anything worse than a cold. I hope you never do.
@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
16 Jun 07
I'm just trying to help... may be I'm not the right person... I apologize... I think that positive thinking and some friends can make a difference... or not? you are right, I may be a little ignorant :)
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
17 Jun 07
It makes perfect sense that upon falling ill, someone becomes depressed. In cases such as myself, I was diagnosed with depression and till this day I still don't know how or why I fell into such a state. Change and the unknown can be hard for anyone to cope with, so it makes sense that your feeling this way. I hope that you have a good friend to talk with about how you're feeling, sometimes that works better than any medicine out there!
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@kitkat1 (1227)
• Canada
17 Jun 07
I know what you mean on this one. But u know it is a catch 22 situation here working as well. Illnesses make you depressed and being depressed can also make you ill. Sometimes it seems like a no win situation i know. I am not doing to bad now no so depressed hopefully it will stay that way but i was like you are talking not to long ago.
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@Inky261 (2520)
• Germany
16 Jun 07
I do not have diabetes. My dog has. She gets shots and meals every 12 hours. When the doctor confronted me with the diagnosis it was a bad shock. I read about diabetes and learned a lot. All was new and not necessarily better and it took month until this state of being paralized vanished. Diabetic dogs only have an average life expectancy of two years. But some live 8 years. One year has passed and my dog is well adjusted to the insulin shots. I have gotten more confident, I think she can make it much longer than another year. My dog is healthy and happy and she likes the diet I have to cook for her. We are having a pretty good live together. I think you will adjust and become reasonably healthy and happy again. There is much worse sicknesses than diabetes.
@myfanwy65 (1030)
• United States
16 Jun 07
I'm glad your dog is doing better. I hope she lives many more years.
• India
17 Jun 07
Yes , it sure is depressing being ill... You begin to think of all the things you should ve done to avoid this state and brood over how happy the others are and your insignificance.. unless you are well taken care off..
@dbhattji (2506)
• India
17 Jun 07
Diabetes is not fatal, nor does it curtail your daily activities. With the progress in medicine, if you keep your blood sugar under control you have near normal life. So don't give up, these troubles are sent to make us strong. The good part is that now you can get everything made with sugar substitutes, so if you have a sweet tooth then you don't have to deprive yourself from eating sweet things also. See a person who has no legs, you won't be sorry for not having shoes.
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@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
17 Jun 07
I don't have diabetes, but any chronic illness can lead to depression. You are right though that you need to keep up with a disease like diabetes so that things don't get worse.
• India
17 Jun 07
hey myfanwy65, why be upset and why be depressed??its not d end of the world but it just says starting looking and living life in a different way...as u have diabetes u have to go under many restrictions but then also u can do many more things...and dont u know dat depression and tension are not atall allowed in diabetes(doctors say so,,not me!!)...actually my mom is suffering wid diabetes too...so dont be depressed coz it wud ur situation worse and do tk cr of urself. with lotz of luv',Pam
@mike2003 (287)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
I know what you're going through. I had an uncle who has diabetes... He was a really fun person until he was diagnosed.... Then he became depressed and lost all fun in life.... Good thing he overcame it.... I know you will too..