People, Honest answers Plz............??

@kavita23 (2996)
India
June 17, 2007 12:22am CST
Last weekend me nd my husband argued nd my hubby said, that im very different, he said that when he had seen me he really wanted to get married, as he liked me a lot, and he still do love me as well, but the thing, which bother me is why he said i'm very different? what does that mean....? im married for 2 yrs.
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@nanayangel (7839)
• Philippines
22 Feb 08
Hi there! Well, I don't really know what he means since only you can tell because you're the one who's in the relationship. I feel that way when it comes to my husband though. But I am aware of myself being a lot different from the person that I was when I married him. I think that people change, that's perfectly normal. A lot of things happen to us along the way and it somehow, changes us. Somethimes, it is a tiny change, but sometimes, it's really noticeable. I think that you should evaluate yourself, ask yourself what it is that's changed about you. I have been married for almost six years so there are certainly a lot of changes about us.
@feliniti (875)
18 Jun 07
Hard to say about your own personal situation. He could be trying to manipulate you though. Or it could be an innocent comment that just means you have changed. Everyone does change, but as long as this change is not harmful to the other person, I think people need to understand that before they get married. Of course people will change it is part of the pressures of life. Hope it is not too serious and this works out for you both.
@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
18 Jun 07
Well, I am not really sure about what he meant by that. People change all the time and maybe he sees some sort of a change in you.