Is it possible to fall in love with a friend?
June 17, 2007 10:24am CST
I'm just wondering because I mean, when you have this lapse of time that you didn't see each other then you come to realize that person means much to you? have you experienced this?
18 Jun 07
yes,i have experienced it.to have a good relationship,friendship is a good foundation for that. it is really possible to fall for a friend especially if he/she is very good looking. i can still remember before how we enjoy being together and tease each other.it might take a lot of time for you to realize that you no longer love that person as a friend because you already love him with all your heart.i just want to say that sometimes its better to keep your feelings to your friend to yourself because sometimes it can destroy your relationship.
17 Jun 07
Nope, not ever. But it is possible that you can fall for your friend specially when you have realized that your friend is delicous and started fantisizing about him...that's only natural becasue he is the only one you can hangout with most of the time...but I think just at least try once to take his load then do not see him for a while and check yourself how you felt if you missed him him and you feel like the load you got from him is not enough and you want that load everyday so be it ...that's the time it is really worth pursuing that kind of career...having his load most of the time. Could be that deeliciouse eih?
• United States
17 Jun 07
Yes, I think it definitely is. My fiance was one of my very good friends before we started dating. We would talk online quite a bit. He had asked me out, but I had just started dating someone else, so I had to tell him no. But then a few months later, after talking to him almost every night, I realized that he was much better for me than the other guy (who had dumped me anyway). So we started dating, and now we are engaged! :)