Would he leave?

United States
June 17, 2007 10:20pm CST
Do you worry that your spouse or partner would leave you if you gained a lot of weight?
5 responses
@Madona1 (2096)
• Gibraltar
19 Jun 07
I don't think so as I am the type of person like to look after myself. I do regular exercise and eat smart to maintain the healthy living style. On the contrary, my husband has sweet teeth. He can finish a whole cake himself. Though he is a vegetarian, he is a big eater and puts on lots of weight since we are together. Sometimes I joke to him I don't have to leave him but he may leave me earlier due to the unexpected heart attack or stroke. Sorry I have to use this method to warn him not to eat much. LOL
• United States
18 Jun 07
I am and i'm not, he isn't the type to judge people based on looks, if he left me because of my weight than he wasn't worth my time, he gained alot of weight so that would be a bad reason for him to break up with me lol, august will make 7 years my fiancee and i have been together, he put on alot of weight and we've been trying to lose it, i've been doing weight watchers, i lost 50lbs but keep losing and gaining.
• United States
18 Jun 07
I don't worry about it. Honestly if he left me for that then he could just stay gone. He better love me for me! Not the size of my pants. My boyfriend has seen me get super fat when I was pregnant and I didn't drop the pounds right after matter of fact Im still trying to get em all off. But he has loved me through it all. But sadly most men arent like that. :( But no Im not worried...but then again Im more worried about just GAINING it! haha
@carlaabt (3504)
• United States
18 Jun 07
I've always been overweight because of health issues. My husband doesn't mind. In fact, even at my fattest, I was thinner than some of his exes. He just likes big girls I guess. I wouldn't keep someone around that was so stuck on the physical looks of a person, though. There is so much more to a person than that. My husband has gained about 35 lbs since we got married, and I don't love him any less. We are getting ready to start a diet together, because he is having a harder time with his fitness tests at work now. He still passes, but he wants to be able to pass more easily. So we are going to work it. But I wouldn't leave him, even if he gained 135 lbs. I love HIM not his looks.
@migenKC (792)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
me i was wooried... but when i ask him if he'll leave me if im already fat old woman... he answered me this: "ill make my self fat also... i wont leave you on that kind of reason only...coz i dont love you because your young and sexy but just because i trully love you" hehhe...you see how sweet he is... by the way... if a person loves you he doesnt mind your apperance only but he takes care everything in you... my partner always make way to make me physicaly healthy and also healthy on other aspects...