How did you and your significant (spouse) get together?

@pooh1623 (192)
United States
June 18, 2007 12:38am CST
I met my husband while he was dating someone else. This is going to get weird now, but the girl he was dating is an ex of my ex's ex best friend. I told you it was going to get weird. So i'll explain, I met my ex boyfriend and his best friend was trying to break up with this girl and he succeeded, well when they split up about 15 months later she started dating my husband. Things didn't work out for them and so now he is mine and has been for almost 3 years and he is the father to both of my handsome boys. So what's your story like?
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4 responses
• India
18 Jun 07
Hi, I met my husband when I went for an interview. He is an employee there. I went there but I didnt even talk with him. Later they made me call, when I am not in home. When I tried to call that office, my husband lifted the phone and we both always talk with each other those days. Now I am so happy with my husband.
@pooh1623 (192)
• United States
18 Jun 07
Isn't it interesting how things work out the way they do? How long have you and your husband been married? So did you get the job?
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• India
19 Jun 07
Ya we both got succeeded in our love life(married) in this month (june 1st) only. Also we have succeeded in our job. We both got job and we are well settled now.
@pooh1623 (192)
• United States
20 Jun 07
I'm glad that everything worked out for you two.
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
I met boyfriend during our College years. We were classmates in one of our minor subjects. We're batch mates actually. BUt during that time, he doesn't have an impact to me then. I don't mind him at all. BUt when he graduated and I am on my last year, we again met at that school. He was already working then. but again, I didn't have any special feelings for him because I am attracted to his bestfriend. Days past, we kept on seeing other. Until such time, we found ourselves comfortable talking to each other. It was then, when I started to feel strange towards him but I didn't expect for anything more. He was committed to someone else that time. But it didn't prevent us from dating. Until such time, her GF came to him and asked for break up because according to the girl there had been rumors that he is going out with someone (and unfortunately that's me...LOL).. So, they broke up. I must admit that I was a bit happy, knowing that he's available and he might have the chance to court me... yet, I am also troubled knowing that I'd been the cause of their break-up. When that incident happened, we still go out and the courting didn't happen automatically. Months passed before our relationship became official. And proud to say that it has been 6 six years now we're still together until now.
@pooh1623 (192)
• United States
18 Jun 07
Well I'm glad everything worked out for you in the end, I love happy endings. So are you two going to get married? Do you still feel bad about being the cause of the break up, which I don't think you were?
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
Actually, he proposed to me several times but I reasoned that I am not ready yet. I still have a lot of dreams to be fulfilled. I must admit that the thought being the cause of breakup still haunts me yet it doesn't anymore affects me for I believe that the girl already moved on now and I've heard that she already got married. So, that only means that they weren't for each other.
@pooh1623 (192)
• United States
20 Jun 07
Yeah its funny how things work out, if you are meant to be with someone or be someplace you will be taken there in time. So what other dreams do you have to fufill before you get married?
@student7 (1002)
• United States
18 Jun 07
I first saw my husband the first day of my freshman year in high school. I liked him when I saw him and wanted to get together with him. Well I kept seeing him through the school year and towards the end him and his friend came up and talk to me a couple of times. I didn't think anything of it, until I got a job at the restaurant where he and his brother was working. Well at the time, I didn't know that he worked there. I started to train with his brother, I was 15 at the time, and his brother ended up liking me. I was so stupid and didn't see it. Well one day my husband and my brother-in-law walked in while I was working. I asked his brother who he was and his brother said that my husband was his brother. I ended up giving his brother my phone number. Well about a week later, my husband called at asked me out on a date, well it wasn't my husband, it was his friend, my husband was too shy to ask. We had our first date and the rest is history. We have been together 17 years married 12 with two beautiful children. I guess you could say that I got my man. :)
@pooh1623 (192)
• United States
18 Jun 07
It's weird how love blinds us even when we don't know its happening. That's how it was with my husband and I, I was actually dating his and his girlfriend at the time's roommate and didn't even realize that my now husband liked me the entire time. I'm glad that everything worked out for you and your husband. So where did your husband take you on your first date?
@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
18 Jun 07
we got drunk
@pooh1623 (192)
• United States
18 Jun 07
LMAO!! That's so funny, are you still together?