my husband

Australia
June 19, 2007 7:33pm CST
my husband Shane is the most amazing man... we have had some really rough times over the years, things have happened to us that could of destroyed our relationship. instead of destroying it it's brought us closer together.. after 10 years of being together it only seems like yesterday that we started going out... i still get a buzz when we hug, when we kiss... i believe we have the stuff that's made to last.. im glad Shane and i found each other (which is amazing because we are from 2 different countries) he is my perfect man... and he makes me happier than anyone ever has... are you as lucky in luv as i am? let me know wot u think!!
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@butterfly39 (3907)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
Wow! HOw sweet. congratulations for having found Shane. I hope you're relationship will last for long.
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• Australia
20 Jun 07
we will grow old together i know... thanx for the comment
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@sahm35 (891)
• United States
20 Jun 07
I have a wonderful husband. We will be married for seven years coming up June 24th. I love him so much. We met each other in college and started off as friends. Wonderful way to start a marriage.
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• Australia
20 Jun 07
i agree friends is a great way to start a relationship... happy anniversary for the 24th.... and im sure me and shane will grow old together.. thanx for the comment
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• United States
20 Jun 07
I think your very lucky my husband and I have always been down a long road at one point we seperated for about 6 months but we kept in touch and eventually reunited and now our marriage is stronger and better then ever it will be 19 years in november we have been together and I wouldn't change anything not even the bad times it just made us closer to get thru the bad things and the good outweighs the bad anyhow keep on lovin!!!!
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• Australia
20 Jun 07
yeah i hear u... the rough times for us is wot glued us together... i know how lucky i am and i cherish every day spent wif the luv of my life.. thanx for the comment
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@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
20 Jun 07
I think you are a very lucky lady, I think everyone would love that, it is what everyone is looking for but unfortunately these days it doesn't work this way very often, it seems you appreciate what you have and that is wonderful, I do know a fe girls who have a wonderful life with a wonderful husband but they take it all for granted... I hope things stay wonderful for you.. you are very lucky.
• Australia
20 Jun 07
yeah i know how lucky i am.... thanx for the comment
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@rosie_123 (6118)
20 Jun 07
Well I am very happy for you. My man and I are not married - been together over 20 years now, and just never felt the need for the "piece of paper", - but other than that I would say we are very similar to you and Shane:-)) We are from two different countries too! Hope you will always be happy!
• Australia
21 Jun 07
im sure we will be thanx for the comment... 20 yrs huh!! wow thats fantastic
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
i think i am. weve only been married for 4 years but we know each other since birth.
• Australia
21 Jun 07
thats sooo sweet.. i hope u hav a long and happy life together... thanx for the comment
@bruxedo (773)
• France
20 Jun 07
Nowadays I am, yes. After 7 years of marriage. But things were not so good with the other two experiences I had. It was very difficult to handle those situations for me that believed that I could built a good and strong relationship. But perhaps those situations gave me a lot of experience that allows me today to enjoy this relationship.
• Australia
21 Jun 07
i believe ur right.... all the situations we face durin our life shapes the people we r today... thanx for the comment
• United States
20 Jun 07
you are lucky. im not sure i can say the same. been with my boyfriend 6 yrs he is 11 yrs older than me.we have been threw alot such as dealing with my mom over my 4 yr old daughter in court to him cheating.we dont even sleep in the same room any more half the time. i want to get married and have another child he dont want neither of those. sometimes i feel we are only together cause of our daughter.we dont kiss,hold hands, or hug,and if we are the same room it is for only about 5- 10 mins. then he leaves and goes get on computer which it seems he is on there 24/7. sorry dont mean to bring you down . wish i was luck like you. i love this man but dont know if he loves me.
• Australia
20 Jun 07
thats really sad.... evryone deserves wot i hav and to be happy... ur not bringin me down, so dont worry about that... add me as a friend if u like i dont mind talkin and i can be a good lsitener... i dont want to be rude or anything but stayin together just because of a child seems silly to me.. think about wot ur child will be learnin about relationships... and think about wot its doin to u... u deserve beta.... way beta.. thanx for the comment and i hope u find ur way!
@bigmacnc (142)
• United States
20 Jun 07
Friday will be our 5th anniversary and it has been tough. Started off with preacher not showing up, we were planning a small gazebo wedding at Sullivan's Island. Wife was able to schedule a company called mobile marriages to do the service. It was raining so hard the whole weekend, so we received permission from seafood restaurant that was handling the reception to be married there. It is one of our favorite restaurants. Less than a week later my brother was murdered. I did not get a job that I had requested because of my sleep disorder. I had to have surgery to take Basil cell cancer off my nose and open up the nares. My wife became very week and thought it was just adjusting to not working 12 hour shifts. When we were going to her families thanksgiving, she wanted to stop at the ER where she had worked hoping to get some fluids. Her red blood counts were the lowest of anyone living at that hospital. She was put in a non air flow room and then transferred to ICU. Thanksgiving day she was transferred by ambulance to Vanderbilt Hospital and placed in another negative air flow room and could not eat any raw veggies. Diagnosed with Hairy Cell Leukemia which is chronic and rare, but treatable to remission. She received about 15 units of blood and chemotherapy. She loves salads but could not eat them for several months because her immune system was so low. Next I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer and thyroid was removed and radio active iodine treatment. Next was a stroke for me causing a job move for me within the government. Later had gallbladder removed it was size of small melon.