why ?i love two person at the same time

China
June 21, 2007 11:17pm CST
do you have the same experience?love your own husband at on hand and love your lover at the other hand .they just like your two hands.you cannot affored losing anyone!i,a married person ,in order to get them together,i leave home ,so i can play it well.happy and despressed.
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@jenny1015 (13390)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
It could be really difficult to be in such predicament. And I think you really do not love 2 persons at the same time. You only love one of them and you think you love the other coz you can not just go out of his life.
@cobradene (1171)
• India
7 Nov 07
I've experienced it before, but it wasn't as serious as it is now. I love three of them at the same time. But at least I can afford to keep one as a friend, and it's very pure. But the other two are very important to me. One person has stood by me for more than 6 years now and she gave me strength and helped me stand up in life. She gave me a direction and also insight and confidence. So she's almost a part of my soul. And just year after I met her, I met someone whom I felt I was connected for a long time and couldn't part with, and it was love at first sight. For the past 7 years after meeting both of them, I've been confused about handling these two relationships. And the third one just walked into my life, but she's a good friend and very a good friend of mine. But I have been a little confused about handling this one. I can't afford to lose both of them. And my girlfriend is in a similar situation too. She was already involved when she met me, and she can't afford to lose both of us. :) It's nice to experience love. Love has so many dimensions and variations.
@mero026 (33)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
loving two person at the same time, maybe true or maybe not because if you really love someone to whom your committed to, theres no chance that you would allow yourself to fall inlove to another, maybe there's a reason why it happened...sometimes it happens when we realized that we just can't be so contented of what we currently have, where sometimes you just got bored with your daily lives when the focus of you and your husband is the love of your children, where life becomes routinary...later on, you'll miss being lovers, you'll feel awful and ugly as being a mother, you miss someone that could give you special attention, the spark, the magic...its all gone. then one day...theres a guy that would let you feel all those things that you miss then at the end of the day realized how wonderful it is to be loved...sooner or later your in love again.
@ela2pso (364)
• Philippines
22 Jun 07
thats really depressing. and i think you really have to choose one. i think its not good to love them both. all you have to do is to bond your husband's vaue to you. you have to be stick with only one. not by two, it is against in all laws... be rational this time.. you dont have to be confused. the anser is very simple if u can follow. thats it... Goodluck. enjoy mylot!