First impressions, vibes - do you believe in them?

United States
June 22, 2007 2:04am CST
For me first impressions are very important - I have (usually) the ability to feel a person and the vibes that I get the first time I meet someone usually prove right. Even here on myLot, I have vibes about the friends I made and those whose questions I answer by the way they write and the avtar they choose. What about you; do you have vibes about those you meet for the first time (or in this case, read their discussions) and do you trust your feelings?
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@avs189 (1030)
• India
22 Jun 07
For me first impressions are very much important and most often i draw conclusion abt a person in first meeting regarding his nature and behaviour,this kind of first impression has greater importance in face-face meeting ,however here on the internet its rather difficult to predict the same ,finally it depends on every individual whetehr they beleive in the impressions or not,for some they work out while some they dont work out.
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@urbandekay (18312)
16 Dec 07
Yes though sometimes they are wrong and we all tend to remember the times they are right and forget the times they fail all the best urban
@polachicago (19075)
• United States
28 Jun 07
I couldn't agree with you more. I learned the long way to trust my instincts about people and trust my first energy exchange. Yes, you can call it vibration or energy level. For me it is person aura. I can see people’s aura. It is easy for me to judge people I meet. They don’t have to say anything. I can also say a lot looking at person’s photography. On mylot I met few wonderful people and bunch of people lost and lonely. I do trust my instincts. If I force myself not to, consequences are terrible. Great post! :)))
@tinamwhite (3255)
• United States
23 Jun 07
Yes, Magdalena, my friend...I am the same way...I also usually put alot of trust in my "gut instinct" when meeting a person...whether in person or online...
@maribea (2366)
• Italy
23 Jun 07
I think I can feel a person too ..just like you are writing..but maybe I am not so good at doing this because it has happened many times that people who I cared were the opposite they first seemed to be..and it has just happened again with a friend who was not a friend, indeed..I hate when this happens because I am very careful with people and I am very sly, but when I care for someone I open my heart...and I hate the fact that I cannot avoid bad people just because they seemed so good at first and second and third...impression!!!!