Which Aspect of Life Fill You with Most Disappointment?

Hong Kong
June 23, 2007 7:39pm CST
I woke up really early today and it's unreal. I kind of sat on my bed and reviewed my life a bit. I think in general life is good for me but I don't understand why I really have no luck in relationships. Sometimes I see people getting married with their first love or second love, but I am still bouncing around and that's kind of annoying. I think the other aspects of life for me are not bad (i.e. work, study, finance, family, friends and stuff) and I guess I should really be happy with them. What about you? Do you have a "perfect" life in your definition? Which aspect of life mostly fill you with disappointment?
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• India
24 Jun 07
All the aspects of my life seem to be very satisfying to me. I have good relationships, study atmosphere is good, family and friends also seem to be contented with me. But one thing which makes me down is failure at my favourite sport. I play badminton past 10 years and haven't won major tournaments. Of course, hard work and dedication is the key to success. I used to work out very sincerely all these years but no success. I also accept that I was sometimes lazy to get up in the morning for training. But this aspect, I feel, is not justified when I compare myself with my counter parts who play at the hub. They don't do as much fitness as we do but still are able to beat us in the matches. This is one thing which annoys me a lot.
• Hong Kong
24 Jun 07
Oh sorry to hear that! Still I think sometimes we need some kind of "luck" in the tournaments! I think if you work hard towards it, it's really fine. But I do understand your frustration, so I guess life is a combination of hard work and luck! But other aspects are fine, so you should enjoy those to the fullest! I wish you the best of luck in the next tennis tournament though! Let me know if you win *smiles*.
• India
24 Jun 07
Thank you for your wishes. I agree with you that we must have some amount of luck while playing tournaments. My mother always says that me and my brother both are lacking luck factor. When she looks at the success got by other people without any hard work she really wonders as to what makes them so successful.
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• United States
5 Jul 07
For awhile, my life was full of bitter diappointment. I expected everything to work out according to a set plan. And, if it did not, I would fall into deep depression. Of course, this involved a serious amount of self pity and loathing. Then my daughter was born and everything changed. Now, I don't care if things work out the way I imagined, because she is here. And, she has somehow made my fractured heart complete. Even though we are not rich people by any means, we enjoy an idealic happy life. We have each other and that is all that will ever matter.
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• Hong Kong
5 Jul 07
Great for you and I am glad that your daughter changes your way of thinking things, it's really interesting. I am sure you guys would have a really happy life!
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• Australia
24 Jun 07
Hello,wondericequeen,i do not say i am really disappointed with my past relationship,although i broke up with my exboyfriend,i was still happy at that time,i still gaines something from him:)It was a good experience to some extent.Although i had not cheated by him,at least i learned how to deal wit ha guy better. I am quite satisfied with my life right now,although i do not earn much money,i have love from my friends and family,that will be enough for me. You should be haapy then if you say your work,study,finance,family,friends are not too bad,I am sure you will have a sucessful relationship later,no worry.:)
• Hong Kong
24 Jun 07
I am actually happy most of the time, it's just that sometimes I am quite vulnerable to the relationship issue. I try to stay positive most of the time, but I guess I am a human being after all and something would upset me. But I tell myself if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. I try to focus other things in life and it really motivates me somehow and it's good. I still think I am happy where I am.