do you want to raise your child by yourself or by your parents?

China
June 25, 2007 12:42am CST
now in our country,it seems that more young parents are so busy that they have no time to raise their children,so their parents who have been retired help them to raise.but they are very old and they usually love the kids so much that they sometimes spoil them.I just want to know what is your opinion on this issue?thank you for sharing!
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3 responses
@archer1811 (1099)
• Philippines
25 Jun 07
Before i got married my husband and i made an agreement that if i got pregnant and have a child i dont go to work anymore, and this happen too. When i got pregnant i resigned to my previous job and stayed at home till i gave birth to our son, i enjoy doing that so, taking care of my son, it is much better that the parent are the one to look after their children, but when my son entered her pre school i felt so bored staying at home and waiting for my son to come, so i talked to my husband if i can work again and he agreed. Now we hired a nanny for our son to take care of him and my brother is in our house to look after him also. The idea of raising children to their grandparents is not bad also.
• China
25 Jun 07
I will do the same in the future,after pregnant,I will resign and take care of my child till it can go to school.
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
Its really good that when your child is still below 3yrs old you are the one that always in his side so that he'll be grow up being so close to you. And you're very sure of raising him in a way that you want. Thanks for the BR!
@cynddvs (2950)
• United States
25 Jun 07
I want to raise my daughter with my fiance. I don't think my daughter should be left to someone else to raise. Luckily my fiance makes enough money so that I can be a stay at home mom and devote my time to taking care of our daughter and home. I do want our parents to be big parts of our daughters life. But I don't want them raising her.
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• China
26 Jun 07
I admire you very much.I think it is good to raise one's own child by oneself.and if possible,I will raise my child by myself in the future.wish you good luck and your lovely daughter!
@asmurthy (2464)
• India
25 Jun 07
I don't want to miss the thrill of raising children in my life. It is part and parcel of life. One should not miss it. Children wants love and affection of parents and that is possible only when you are with them.
• China
25 Jun 07
yes,nowadays,raising a child needs too much money,but I still want to have a child,haha.