How to Avoid an annoying friend ?

@dio123 (1790)
India
June 25, 2007 10:47am CST
one of my friend is disturbing me a lot, actuall one of my best friend has introduced him with me about 6 years ago, I understood it very early that he is a very mean person and also not of my level still I am good with him only because of my best friend, he always looking to take advantage of me being emotional, by making me pay for hotel or bar bills, using only my vehicle etc Now I am trying to avoid him from last one year, still could not do this I just want to avoid him without any dispute and keep a long distance with good relation, How Guide Me ?
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@tredale (1313)
• Australia
25 Jun 07
Im not sure dio123 that this is possible, people who are vexing on our spirits really need to take a wide berth. I would tell him what he is doing to annoy you and tell him you dont wont to have anything to do with him. Its more draining in the long run to keep the friendship than be honest. Be honest to him and it will set you free or he will change if he really appreciates your friendship. goodluck
@dio123 (1790)
• India
26 Jun 07
Thanks for the suggestion I will work If I can explain him how he hurts my feeling and annoying me thanks tredale !
@babostwick (2037)
• United States
25 Jun 07
I've not had that so I'm going to try to help as best as I can. I guess you could try being honest and trying to discuss the matter with him and see how things go. I guess find a place to go and if you want to keep contact, then that's fine.