How to handle teenage students?

@michan (212)
Philippines
June 26, 2007 2:36pm CST
I just started student-teaching and I'm going to handle 14-15-year-olds. I was left alone with them today and I couldn't get them to keep quiet. I tried "exiling" students by making them change seats with other kids, but after 2 minutes, they're back in their seats. It's so frustrating! What can I do to set them straight?
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
26 Jun 07
lol, wheres the owners manual? i have a 14 year old and quite honestly she baffles me most of the time... when you figure out how to handle 14/15 year olds...bottle it/sell it/write a book about it...you will become a millionaire!! smiles!
@michan (212)
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
Haha! I agree with you! If only there was a shortcut to this. Today, I asked them to keep quiet again and again and again. They won't listen to me. They won't listen to each other as well. What have happened to kids now? They don't have the concept of obedience anymore.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
26 Jun 07
that is true and i think its attitude (my daughter has a huge one) and i think it also has to do with parenting...many parents work full time and dont give their kids enough discipline (i see this with my daughter's friends) - some parents work full time or they are single parents and just worn out from working etc that they dont have the energy to devote to discipline or they feel guilty for not spending enough time with johnny...
@michan (212)
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
Do you think it would also have to do with appearance or age? I'm about 8-9 years older than them but I don't look that old. I wear 3-inch heels for that added authority but it doesn't seem to work.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
try this, let them talk one at a time in front of evrybody. tell them they can tell anything they want to share or better yet, let them tell everybody what they are being noisy about. you'll probably use more than the hours alloted for one subject but I think it'll be worth it. ^__^ try to watch gokusen or gto live to get an idea on how to tame students. ^__^ goodluck!
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
29 Jun 07
really??!! hahaha! i loved those series! it has made me teary-eyed a few times. ^___^ well then, i guess there's no need for me giving you advices coz my sources are those shows. LOL
@michan (212)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
Well, they're okay. I mean, they're WOW and they have good teacher attitudes, but they can't really be applied completely in real life.
@michan (212)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
OMG I've watched those too! hahaha... I love Japanese Teacher Dramas
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@SONALIKA (573)
• India
27 Jun 07
hi michan,i m just 3 years elder to you and in the same position as yours.but not student teaching but a professional one.the things you can try are that firstly make them feel you are authority figure 2)give them regular project work 3)tell them their quality of project is going to effect their grades. 4)discuss the topics within class and be patient listener 5)be helpful and admiring when needed- teenagers love appreciation in front of fellow classmates 6)never make comparison 7)praise their other hidden talents-other than academics...........I AM SURE YOU WILL BECOME THEIR FAVOURITE TEACHER. and kids listen carefully to their favourite teacher.
@SONALIKA (573)
• India
27 Jun 07
i hope this would help you and do tell me what was their response.
@michan (212)
• Philippines
27 Jun 07
Thank you!
@roxprice (30)
• United States
4 Jul 07
My best recommendation - read Harry Wong, in particular his book "The First Day of School." Lots of practical advice. Terrific ideas for classroom management.
@athnam (20)
• United States
10 Jul 07
I agree. And second, don't beat yourself up about it. It takes time to find you groove (and theirs) before you find what strategy works with your personality.
• Philippines
27 Jun 07
hi there michan, I handle teenage students too, but college students to be specific. When I'm discussing and they can not keep their mouth shut, I just keep quiet and sit down. If that don't work, I give them a quiz. I don't know which will work for you, but you can try both of them. You can also think of other ways, just don't let yourself be carried over by your frustration and anger because they will see that, and they will do things to make you more irritated. good luck!
@michan (212)
• Philippines
28 Jun 07
Next time there's a class reporting, I'll hold a quiz right after. I think.
@mhayes7 (22)
• United States
26 Jun 07
I'm a big advocate of changing your activities every 7-10 minutes. Make sure the kids all have a specific responsibility to do during each activity to keep them busy. That way, they don't have time to mess around. Make sure you keep them accountable for their work! Good luck!
@michan (212)
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
I told them each member should have a responsibility... but after they've done their part they feel like free already. =/ _
@mkirby624 (1598)
• United States
7 Jul 07
Middle school is SO hard hun, I feel your pain!! I student taught with 8th graders, and while I loved it, they were SO difficult. They are very defiant, and it's kind of hard to do anything about it. When they just flat out refuse to obey you, you have to go to the next level of authority. I hate sending kids to the office, but sometimes, it's what has to happen. I taught summer school this summer which was so hard. I taught 6th-8th grade and we couldn't punish them. There was no detention or in school suspension, so I had no means of punishment. It was pretty rough! Stick it out hun!! You'll make it!