Why do lovers hurt their beloved most?
By maybel13
@maybel13 (205)
Philippines
June 27, 2007 8:31am CST
a lover who claims to love can never hurt his/her beloved. Love demands that you care utmost to your beloved. You are concerned about their feelings. you make them as comfortable as possible. You keep them as happy as possible. You help them fulfill their dreams. You encourage them during tough times and you are always there for them. If you will not do this, there will be nothing called as love.
Sometimes, we get to hurt our beloved ones unintentionally. People in-love easily gets hurts because they are in love.
3 responses
@cyb3rjunk13 (470)
• United States
27 Jun 07
Well, the things that you described are the responsibilities of a lover, In a Ideal world that would be the things a lover would do, however, a lover is a human also and they can make mistakes(no One is perfect remeber:)) and they end up hurting their beloved unintentionally, However, if they are doing in intentionalyy then thats not love at all. becuz in Love there is no U or I..its US..
@cyb3rjunk13 (470)
• United States
30 Jun 07
Well, like i said We should always try to avoid making mistakes that may hurt our loved obes, however, if our love ones make mistakes that hurt us, then we should realize the fact that no one in this world is perfect..Also, it depends on the mistake that they hve made. So yea we definatly should try our best to avoid it.
@pallidyne (858)
• United States
27 Jun 07
That's the risk of being very close to someone. Everything you do can affect them. A stranger or an acquaintance isn't there all the time, and has no real investment in your actions.
That makes it easier to inadvertantly hurt the one you love.
@blog8withJ (136)
• United States
27 Jun 07
Hurt is already in the package when you deeply in love with the person. When love strikes in, and there's something wrong the relationship, hurt will get in and it will follow. Hurt and love is inseperable. You loved the person deeply an you have so many emotions stored in your heart for her and for him. If its just other people who will hurt, it doesn't matter. But, when the one you loved will hurt you the most, it is the most painful experience anybody cn feel. Love is the strongest emotion anyone can play. It is the center of all emotions in which people love to do it over and over again even if its hurting. Love is just damn great. Thats why, it becomes too painful when our love one hurt as the most.
