Do you feel sometimes you married the wrong person?

United States
June 29, 2007 2:16pm CST
I am just wondering if anyone eles feels like this.. Do you feel like sometimes you married the wrong person? I mean things were great in the start you were in love but than things just got to distant. You don't do anything like you once did... You stay home and do different things instead of being with your other meaning you'd be on the pc while he's watching some movie you've been 100 times or vise versa... You want to go out and do things but the other don't you feel like sometimes you have no life it's stuck at home with nothing to do.
5 responses
@Ploy1854 (59)
• Canada
30 Jun 07
Hey:D I'm married for 2 years and things are like you said. I used to I think that I did make a wrong decision or what. But It's the life I chose and I'm happy to be with him and have him in my life even though he gets on my nerves sometimes. Yes, I want some friends and do things like I used to do when I'm not married. My social life sucks and somehow I feel lonely. It's not that he can't be my friend but it's just not like that. I really understand your situation. Don't give up!:D or you will be depressed with the same boring thing everyday, right? If you guys always have your own time, you do what you love to do and then talk to him that you guys should do something together sometimes. Get to know each other and try to get the feeling of love again. That's what I'm doing with my husband. He's always stuck with the computer playing games.
• United States
30 Jun 07
Wow i really didn't think i was the only person like this.. we do basically do our own thing either i'm on the pc and he's watching tv or vice versa.. i've tried getting him to go and do things with me but it's like he don't want too. so i go by myself that isn't much fun though.. i guess the only thing i can do is keep trying and trying.
• Canada
4 Jul 07
Thanks for your best response! I appreciate it :D.
@ygautam (135)
• India
30 Jun 07
Yeas sometimes i do. But soon I realise that I have married the best possible person available.
• United States
4 Jul 07
everyone has their own oppions and yes sometimes i feel like that too, nothing wrong with the way we feel about our relationships thats for sure.. Thanks for the reply.
@butterfly39 (3907)
• Philippines
30 Jun 07
sometimes I feel it when we had arguments and when I am hurt too. I know that I love him, but yet I still have the feeling of "Am I marrying the right man?" something like that. But now we're still trying to make things turn out right.
• United States
30 Jun 07
I do agree it's like why did i do this or do that.. Why can't we just get along and be happy.. Sometimes i feel like just packing and leaving cause i don't want to keep asking myself why all the time but i don't go anywhere i stay cause i love him...
@cher913 (25891)
• Canada
29 Jun 07
you know what? i think that everyone feels that way sometimes...there are sometimes that i wish i was alone and never got married in the first place (i am an only child...perhaps thats why) even though we love each other, there are times that we are bound to get on each others nerves...and we have been married almost 20 years!!
• United States
29 Jun 07
Thats a very long time to be married to someone thats for sure, Yeah maybe your right maybe everyone feels that way sometime...
• Philippines
30 Jun 07
Sometimes i feel such things because im a plain housewife and i dont used to do things like going out with my friends, going to mall and do things on my own. But still i choose this life, so i would rather embrace it and accept it. maybe it was destined.