Childrens being rude to their parents

India
June 30, 2007 7:26pm CST
The children's of the present generation as well as the nature generation wants complete independence and does not like someone to interfere in their life including their own parents.If someone tries to do so they get angry very soon which can result in many wrong things.So,Is their any way to make the child remember their responsibilities and the love which their parents have for them?
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7 responses
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
3 Jul 07
Dear coolcat this is indeed very wrong on our part to be rude or not understand and give respect to our parents. I believe that what ever we do we will never be able to repay what they gave and did for us. Parents dont expect much. All they want is just respect and care. IF WE CANT EVEN GIVE THAT ITS A SHAME OF OURSELVES AND WE R NOT WORTH BEIN CALLD HUMANS. Infact i feel animals are better than us in those aspects.
• United States
3 Jul 07
My kids would not obey. I have a son and a daughter about 13 months apart in age..when my kids decided to quit school at 16 because their mother let them I tried to get them to get a High School diploma..nope.. so when they were 18..I did not help them as my Child Support was finished..Kaput..I walked my daughter down the aisle and attended my son's wedding in a TUX but both got divorced within a year..just like MOMMA? Well, my son wanted me to pay for his divorce..i said no..and also my daughter got the same treatment as she would go from guy to guy..three kids..no father? just like their mother..married now six times no husband.. I cannot interfere with them as they don't even know what responsibliities are. They say it was my responsiblility all these years..yeah maybe..but what is a child's responsiblility to his parents..?? I guess none..it goes both ways..if you want respect you must show respect..that is how my parents taught me..and they were much stricter then i was..but that is another story
@dpk262006 (50168)
• Delhi, India
2 Jul 07
Yes, you are very right..that children of today are very rude. Because number of kids per couple is less, so they become..a pampered lot. Their each and every wish and desire is fulfilled. So they take it for granted that their partents will tolerate them to any extent. Moreover, TV, films, media have also made them less aware of their responsibilities and duties. It is really very difficult to handle them.
• Kottayam, India
1 Jul 07
When they are they have the right to choose.But strict discipline needed when they are young.
@youless (79596)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jul 07
I think we can not always blame our children. The education is very important. Sometimes the children is like a mould. They will turn to be another you. Try to be more understanding and this will have less fights.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
1 Jul 07
That depends on the way you bring up your child and that is a very slow and gradual process,there is not a single thing as a solution for the problem.
@Willowlady (10666)
• United States
1 Jul 07
I have never put up with tantrums or disrespect of any kind. They have know that I am MOM and that they are never to life a finger against me. Never to call childrens services etc. We are a family and each has a place. I am loving and took time to stay home and homeschool my children to the stage they are now. It takes rearing them from young and having a good relationships as an example for the kids. Anger is a choice and so I have given my children the skills to deal with that choice and the management of it. I wish them luck in dealing with these people that are out of control and have no love for their fellow man.