parents

Philippines
July 1, 2007 9:01am CST
...what if we before we are born, we have the ability to choose the persons who would become our parents? would that be great or what? i asked this question, because many of children today blame their parents whenever they encounter downfall, that they even asked, "why did you even became my parents?" as if it's the entire fault of parents why they have become such...some even hated their parents so much that they tend to forget that for nine months, they have lived in the paradise of the womb of their mother and the good caring of their father...they forgot that parents' only intentions were the best for their children...'though we know that there are parents who really are not good to their children...but anyway, just answer the question...hmmmmn
1 response
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
I think in the first place, how would one decide? What would your basis be? The only reason why people blame their parents is because they have had the benefit of living, experiences, and comparison with other people's experiences. As infants, what would your basis be when all that is important to you is, first and foremost, to be fed? Does that mean that the parents with the most ability to provide food would end up being chosen a lot? This is just my thought on this topic. :)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
...thank you for your comment...i'd say, if you were given the chance to choose who your parent will be, whom would you choose?..the basis of choosing would depend on the one who would answer this question...because sometimes we hear others saying that they wish their parents were Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie..(just an example) because they wish to be recognized as such and wish that genetically gifted with their parents have...so it depends really for the answerer to choose the basis..
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
Well, if that's the case, I'm pretty happy with my parents and I wouldn't want to have it any other way.