Why do people always sees your negative side?
By josh_caare
@josh_caare (252)
Philippines
July 1, 2007 10:33am CST
I have this very frustating experience. I have a friend who have been my partner (in crime..LOL), i mean.. shes the person whom I thought would always be there for me when I need her and understand me of my mistakes, and never judge of something wrong that i have done.
I have been very good to her, from her problem financially, emotionally... all the support that I can give to her, I provided her such. One time, I did a terrible mistake, that was the darkest part of my life, I have recovered though and now seeing some glimpse of light back to my life. But, the hurting part is that, my friend was very judgemental on me. She sees the negative side of me (which apparently just a mistake i did), and never think of the good times. Now, our friendship is over. Why are people like that?
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3 responses
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
1 Jul 07
It is very difficult, if not impossible, for a woman to forgive and forget is they loose all respect for you. That is true of anyone but especially true for women.
They must have a certain level of trust and if that trust is gone so are they.
As with any relationship you must just move on. What ever that mistake was you must first learn to forgive yourself....learn from it and never do it again...and then move on with your life. There are many other girls out there that will not only make great friends but great lovers also. Go find them.
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@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
1 Jul 07
it comes from living in a very negative world..try living without money or a job for awhile..see how your friends shy away..and family disown you except your parents..
life is good if things are going your way..but hit a few bumps in the road and see who your true friends are...your friend is just normal..he is seeing you for what he sees..don't make him the bad guy..you goofed the ball and dropped it too..so don't let this bother you ..everyone is not perfect..just find a friend who looks for the good in you..and to have a friend you must be a friend..good luck..i have very friends either..as it is too much work for me..except my dog..and even my wife is a jerk sometimes
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
1 Jul 07
A true friend is someone who wants to be with you when other people are walking on the other side of the street to avoid you. Real friends are very rare and hard to find. Most people want to notice you faults because by doing so it makes their own faults less noticible.
