what is love?

China
July 6, 2007 8:21pm CST
I wonder i don't know the real meaning of love.Could you tell me what is the real love?how to love in heart?I have no good idea.
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• Philippines
7 Jul 07
What is LOVE??? Well, for me...Love is not a FEELING. It is a CHOICE. If you are really in love with someone and you can tell him/her that you are in love with him/her then you should quit...It is not really love you felt with that person... You are only in love with the idea of LOVE... Actually, if you are in love, you cant explain you you feel. Its like a magical feeling!!! Love is unconditional and unexplainable that is LOVE all about for me...
• China
13 Jul 07
wow!...you are like a poet.Have you ever been in love?If I can,I would write pretty poems in english...I can write articles in Chinese not in English.
• Philippines
13 Jul 07
Hello there!!! I had an experience with love and being hurt... You know what... We can learn from it and It can make us more mature as we encounter those kind of experiences... It can also teach us how to improve ourselves and how to deal with others... Love comes our way without knowing and expecting... This is what love goes and what really love is... Hope that you have an idea now of what really love is... Godbless!!!
• China
14 Jul 07
yeah..you are right..I guess I have learnt more from love...I know I should care of my lover more ,for example his feeling,his mood and so on..I think loving is a definitely duty for me,I will do my best to do more than before.
@lilaclady (28270)
• Australia
7 Jul 07
Love to me is the feeling inside of you that is not like anything else, you are always happy if that love is returned it is like walking on a cloud, you think that person is the beautiful person in the world regardless of what they are really like, you trust them no matter what, you want to give eveything of yourself, your whole soul, you think about them all day and night, you think that the whole world wants them too so you start getting a little insecure within yourself, you want to spend your whole life with them and nobody else seems to play a big part in your thoughts anymore, it is just all about one person. Now after all that I don't think anyone can really tell if a love is a true love because people don't stop growing and changing, any two people can drift apart, Love is a risk for anyone but for the time you have that feeling the risk is worthwhile, as the old saying says, it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all....enjou while you have it, its beautiful.
• China
7 Jul 07
I can't believe that you wrote so much.Thanks a lot. When I read your reponse,tears is full of my eyes.I know ..I know how is love,but I don't know how to do can make my lover happier.In other words,I understand the knowledge about love,but don't how to make my lover understand my deep love.OH,when he said I didn't care about him,i feel very depressed. I know love a man is a risk with a whole life.But I never regret it.He is worth of being loved by me in my life.
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@lilaclady (28270)
• Australia
7 Jul 07
Just remember men and women think of love in different ways, I think women really do feel love deeper than men, you syay with it and take the risk because it is worthit, I know a couple of who have never loved and never been loved, like you and I feel sorry for them, even if you fail and you get hurt it is so much better than never have been loved...just keep loving your man, it is a nice place to be....
• China
7 Jul 07
yup,maybe you are right.I really don't know.I keep myself busy in doing things all day,not thinking about love,feeling,or etc...reading,listening to music,writing.training my body...