if your gf/bf cheated on u, would u tell him/her or you just keep it by urself?

@rina08 (68)
Philippines
July 8, 2007 12:40am CST
if my bf cheated on me well i definitely talk to him, and tell him everything that i already knew that he has another girl. i prefer to tell him the truth, though it really hurts but thats the nicest thing to do.. it hurts you more if you would just keep it by yourself, coz u cant always hide your feelings if you were really hurt. right? truth hurts but it can help you to set yourself free from someone who doesnt value your love, right? and maybe we just accept the fact or the consequences that maybe somehow, someday, someone will loved us more than that we love them..
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@yamskee (830)
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
if my bf cheated on me, ill keep it to my self and cheat on him.. fair play..
@xelissa (777)
• New Zealand
8 Jul 07
I would be gobsmacked if this ever happened to me. And I do know this happens everyday because it's a part of life. I would probably keep it to my self. In fact I most likely will. Just telling him you know and giving himself the chance to explain, then him getting on your sensitive side then winning you back and then doing it again would totally crush you. First thing I'd do is leave. Give no explanation and keep him on his toes and run. Maybe this might hurt more in the short term, but in the long run you are truly saving yourself.
@maumbi (2571)
• Indonesia
8 Jul 07
hi, at my opinion is since i am at young age and know my wife we never think to have tight rule, we always can get many friend and closed to all people man and women, go to eat with another,watch movie and so on, some times we will find if our love still strong;) even we have a lot another close partner. in this case well just talk only open conversation just like a friend...never try push hard so much when get BF or GF is not mean we control 100% the live/life...;) good communication will have good results...easy way and easy going is the best.