when was the last time you cried?

@tantal25 (839)
United States
July 9, 2007 1:39am CST
when was the last time you cried? why? me, the last time i cried was yesterday coz i am so frustrated with my mother. she kept on comparing me and my older sister. she said it aloud in front of other people that my sister is alot more better than me and even told me why don't i immitate my sister! i felt bad because its not a big deal to me if she praises my sister, what hurts me is she just blob it on my face in front of every body that she doesn't me because i wasn't like my sister. i wanted to tell her that even twins do have different personalities but i guess she would never understand that.
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@jen_n514 (218)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
the last time i cried was when my BF and i broke up 3 to 4 weeks ago...that was MAJOR CRYING! from time to time i'm still crying...but not that hard anymore...of course im still hurting and still coping with the break up...
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@tantal25 (839)
• United States
16 Jul 07
that's really sad too... well, all i can advice to you is to have your time to heal... don't have a new relationship yet... let your heart heal first...
@jen_n514 (218)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
just an update!:D i cried the other night with friends... sometimes you try to be strong and promises yourself not to cry anymore - but when you're with trusted friends and started to open up - you really can't help but cry again...good thing they're there to comfort and support you...FRIENDS ARE GREAT!:D
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
my mother would also say that im worthless well in fact i'm the most useful individual at home even if i have a disability.my sisters would not work as much as i do.but i know my bf would rescue me someday by marrying me.
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@tantal25 (839)
• United States
16 Jul 07
you know i was also thinking about the same thing, that my boyfriend would rescue me soon... but i guess, my advice for you is lets just try to ignore what our mother is doing.... besides, they are still our mother right?
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
Well sorry about that tantal25, im sure you have your own good traits which can really be uncomparable with your sister. As for the last time i cried, i think it was just this year. No details ok :) happy posting!
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@tantal25 (839)
• United States
16 Jul 07
every person has good traits pilotjune.... yes i understand... anyway, thanks for posting =)
@Rozie37 (15503)
• Turkmenistan
9 Jul 07
That would make me cry also. Maybe you should get your mother alone and tell her how you feel and how much it hurts when she does that. Be honest about your feelings.
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@tantal25 (839)
• United States
16 Jul 07
i don't have any plans on confronting her, coz i don't want this to have more issues.... what i just did is i stay away from her....
• Philippines
16 Jul 07
hi there! don't be upset! you have the same fate As mine. though in my case, it's my younger sister who's better than i am. academically speaking, yes she is! and now she has a higher-paying job than me. though my parents don't compare us vocally, i could sense some pressure. For now, i can still handle it. but i know time will come that i'll get tired of this. I hope in that time, i am away from them. parents really have high expectations on their children. it must be the result of their frustrations. too bad it had to be us to fulfill it. and worse, we were the least able to accomplish it. just be strong and prove them what you've got!! you can be better in other ways! but to answer your question, the last time i cried was april 2007 when boyfriend left to migrate in canada.
@tantal25 (839)
• United States
16 Jul 07
hi margz.... aww... we are really almost a like... well i just hope we won't get tired of it.. and yeah you are right, maybe it is my mother's frustration because she married early that's why she was unable to do things that she want to do because there are already limitations... yes my boyfriend too will migrate this coming october at united states... thanks for sharing margz, thankyou for posting..
@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
15 Jul 07
I do not really remember the last time I have done that but I am thinking four months ago when I was going through so much would be that time.
@tantal25 (839)
• United States
16 Jul 07
i see... thank you for posting =)
@ratyz5 (7829)
• Philippines
12 Feb 08
I not certain when was the last time but I'm sure that I was still in gradeschool. I think I was at home all lonely thinking since my mom had to go to work and the house seemed so empty but, then my brother passed by and asked I what I was doing at the corner. I rubbed my eyes off with my hand and said that it was nothing. I never cried after that. Even when I was bitten by a dog for three times nor at the clinic when all boys had to go eventually for the same reason.