August 4th is the big day
By kris182_2000
@kris182_2000 (5444)
Canada
July 11, 2007 7:31pm CST
So the big day is August 4th and I'm really starting to get nervous.
I am slightly behind with a couple of things and I need to catch up quickly.
I'm trying to plan all of this by myself with my mother in law giving me grief every step of the way.
She doesn't want us taking our honeymoon where we're going. She'd rather us take a boring honeymoon not far from home instead of us going where we're going to have fun.
Ugh, see a problem with that?
Any last minute advice from anyone regarding the whole marriage thing?
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4 responses
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
12 Jul 07
Have a talk with ur husband... Tell him what u wants? Im sure he will understand...
Besides, this marriage is between u n him... If u r not happy, how can he be?
Right?
I guess u should tell him tactfully what u thinks and where u wanna go... Im sure he will respect ur decision... As for his mum, let ur husband do the talking... It will be easier for him to say then u and besides, u wouldnt wan a nasty relationship with ur mother-in-law, right?
All the best ya...
@kris182_2000 (5444)
• Canada
12 Jul 07
I try to talk to him but he always says that it will be ok, that there's nothing to worry about.
The problem is that we have to move in September and I'm not sure what we're going to do with her.
He says we'll put her in the basement apartment in the new place, but I keep telling him that I'll have to listen to her all day.
I'd like her to live on her own again, but shee needs to figure out how she'll support herself.
@kareng (54724)
• United States
12 Jul 07
Is your fiance a mamma's boy by chance? If so, you need to get him to tell her to bug off. It's your wedding and you will go where you and he decide for your honeymoon. I hope she gives up her quest and quits trying to make you miserable.
Just tune her out and tell her you are busy with wedding plans. She should be able to understand this! Good luck!
@kris182_2000 (5444)
• Canada
12 Jul 07
Unfortunatley she lives with us. She's disabled and can't afford her own place.
We would like her to be on her own but it won't happen any time soon.
@djbizmonkey34 (633)
• United States
12 Jul 07
With your mum in law bothering you,, save up for a hit man lol jk. But relax, you will be fine :)
@arielle_jc (51)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
give some more details please about your problem with your husband.
but for preliminaries, refresh yourself about your commitment. you are committed to the man not with the in-laws so your attitude must consider the nature of the commitment.
God bless!
