I'm so confused....

United States
July 13, 2007 2:55pm CST
So my boyfriend got mad at me over a stupid video game online. He was being non-responsive so I ran over and was stealing his kills online. It was petty of us both, but it is just a game. Then he flips out on me, and changes Facebook and Myspace saying that he is now Single. I can't talk to him cause he shut off his phone for bed. And then he works 9 - 5. His brother came online on World of Warcraft saying, "You wanna do a dungeon tonight with him and I?" I told him I couldn't if he was still mad at me. And he told me he wasn't. Then all of a sudden he was saying, "He was mapquesting restaurants. He probably wants to find a good place to take you." But that doesn't make any sense to me. Why would he drop our relationship for the world to see online, then when I called him during his lunch break at 1:00 asking if I could still come see him Monday when he was done watching his brother (he's 12, almost 13) he said, "We'll see. I will think about it." He gets off the phone, and doesn't answer after that. So to me I don't know if the ENTIRE story is made up so that I go run a dungeon with his little brother, or if he slipped and didn't want to tell me about the restaurants cause it was for another woman. I told him that why would he be planning a date with me when he was mad and wasn't sure he wanted to see me. His brother is all like, 'To throw you off...it was a surprise." Today is my birthday and I am upset this is happening. We have been going through a long distance relationship for 2 months, and it just hasn't been working out the best. I have been with him for years though. I almost feel like there's a lie somewhere in all this. Maybe his brother made it up. Maybe my boyfriend told his brother it was for me, when really it was for another girl. Kinda sucks to get dumped and have your boyfriend on a date with someone else, all in the same day... when it's your birthday. I wish I knew what was going on, but I can't find out cuz he's at work. Something is fishy.
2 responses
@Adey957 (26)
13 Jul 07
My dear friend if you really love each other you will always do the things that will not hurt each to keep your relationship safe and last. Because true loves always come to an agreement to obey each other on a particular issues that can affect their loves affairs through sound reasoning to promote the power of between. You have to let your guy know that you are sorry for hurting him and promise not to affect the relationship that involved the two of you and moreso make all the effort to reconcile with him by all means to regain your sweet communication back at once so that you continue your love affairs if he is still inlove with you but if not you have to play your own part to let him know that you still love him and be very bold to approach him back dont afraid of him no matter what may comes from his brother or whatever. Just know that its between you and him that is all.
• India
13 Jul 07
aah no probs..i guess these things do happen in a relation..but one thing..itz alwayz better to go out in d open n ask him properly..no point foolin arnd.!!relations r built on trust n frankness.!!period.!!
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