i don't know how to do

China
July 14, 2007 10:42am CST
i love her ,but she don't love me ,she said she don't have the felling to me ,i asked her "be my gf ",she did't refused nor accepted, we are the best friends with each other ,we can know each other very well . she said she have the lover ,but isn't me . i said i wil wait her many years ,maybe at last she still don't accepted me .i don't regret . my decision is right or wrong ,i don't know . anybody can ansower to me ?
1 response
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
14 Jul 07
hi there... it is hard to be in a love triangle. You love her and she loves someone else! and she never have any felling for you... so why dont you let her go and be with someone that she loves, that's might be a good thing for her... I know it is hard for you to do that, and you were saying that you will wait for her... Do you think she will return back to you? how much percentage do you think she will be back? I can't say your decision is wrong but it is too odd to wait for someone that never love you... it never happened and this is not at a movie. You should try to forget her and focus on another woman that might be the best for you... keep her relationship to be your best friend and then you will never loose her. Be share and be nice and be good friend for her... she will be happy if you do that. You have to learn how to control yourself to be with someone else... Try it, and dont hurt yourself by standing next to her and have feeling for her that she never have feeling for u. I wish you good luck
• China
15 Jul 07
i don't think so .in fact we are college student ,we can't imange what will take place. she said she likes that male ,but everything is 'not unchangeable ,the college love have too much uncertainty factor . i know ,maybe we even more suit to be friends ,but i will do