attracting men...

India
July 14, 2007 1:12pm CST
Question for all you men: When someone is attractive to you, do you find them intimidating? I been told by one guy friend that he was intimated by me at first because I am an attractive women, strong and very independent. Just wondering what your ideas on that is. Another thing, what things could women do to get your attention without lifting up her shirt or taking off her clothes? I get eye contact, maybe the occasional hello, but after that nothing. Sometimes I get alot of eye contact but nothing, so what's up with that?
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
15 Jul 07
I do not think, when someone attract me...she would be intimidating. It is warmth and friendliness when we see each other....your gestures, your facial expressions also tell a lot about you. It is for the individual to judge, how the female is feeling and responding. For me wanmness and closeness and courtesy matters a lot, when I am being introduced to a female and subsequently I get to know her. if someone goes to the extent of taking off clothes, I would not prefer getting into relationship with that female. Physical beauty is not the primary aspect for me, which attracts me towards a female. I agree with you eye contact is an important issue, but in our society if you constantly try to make eye to eye contact with a female....that can be taken otherwise also. Excellent Post! Full marks to you for bringing out such an interesting post.
• India
15 Jul 07
I am glad you liked my post :)
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Jul 07
And what about my reply?
• India
15 Jul 07
I think the intimidating feeling from an attractive person is due to some inferiority complex.One should be aware of his or her potential.If one is too shy or fear whether it be addressing a gathering or while among friends just feign confidence.Do you know confidence is the only thing in this world you can feign without being discovered.One cannot know whether one is having real confidence or feigning.I had the problem of being intimidated when seeing beautiful persons because I am of short stature.But later I found that there is nothing in it.It all depends upon us ,if we feel superior we are,in the contrary even if we are OK we will spoil ourselves.
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• India
15 Jul 07
P.S:Honoured to post a response to a 'beautiful' woman's discussion
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@asahibza (388)
• Canada
15 Jul 07
All I know is that one should be good to others. Everyone has priorities. If one cannot get the attention of the opposite gender, one should not get disheartened but keep on moving. It is but natural to get attention. However, one should avoid becoming funny in order to get that.
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• Singapore
15 Jul 07
hmmm I have some tips here hehe 1 ) Shiny Lipstick 3) Prominent Makeup for Eyes 3) Sharp Eye contact 3) Tight blouse and jeans....