Would u push the one you love, to be alone, if you hadn't been alone in weeks?

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Well basically for the past 2 weeks my boyfriend has been babysitting his brother non stop. His parents dropped him off, and left...and they live 2 hours away. I haven't seen him this entire month. It was my birthday this Friday and the 4th of July so yes it was kind of depressing I could see him during those days. I have never gone more than 2 weeks without seeing him ever since we've been together for 6 years. As a matter of fact we use to be together daily. And now that he moved, I have hardly seen him. After 2 weeks of babysitting, his brother left TODAY, he said he didn't want to see me today. And in fact, he probably didn't want to see me tomorrow too. I asked him why and he really had no answer. I finally asked if it was because he hasn't had time to himself in literally weeks (he had to live with a friend and be on his couch before he got to his new place for a week or two) and he said "Yes." The only thing is, I've been dying to see him so it's really hard for me to understand why he isn't yanking me over to his place right away! He made it sound like I could later this week, but then he also said he'd come back to my town this weekend so... I almost feel like if I come later in the week, it's pointless cause I'd turn around almost a day later. Then every time I talk to him about it, it's just "I'll think about it" I don't want to count on him coming to my town cause he's said that a few times before and never did, (family changed his plans based on helping him move) Gas isn't cheap, It's like $3.25 last time I got gas, so driving several round trips is nothing to mess with. I took the long way to his place to make a stop at my parents just in case I had to leave my cat here to see him, and now he is delaying us seeing each other. Maybe people can shed some light on this. Have you ever spent sooo much time with people to the point where you just wanted to be left ALONE no matter how much you love and miss someone? Or is he just pushing me away? I know when I get really depressed I don't like to see people, but that's just me. But when I've spent 2 weeks Christmas vacation with my family, and hadn't seen him... I didn't want to waste a single day to see him again. But everyone is different, and I just wanna hear other people's views on a situation like this.