"I love you"

July 18, 2007 4:49am CST
When you FIRST get romantically involved with someone, who said "I love you" first? was it you or her/him? Was it face to face, through letter or over the phone? (doesn't matter if it's over)
6 responses
18 Jul 07
Well at the time i was in a abuse relationship and had been for 8yrs 10yrs in total with the same guy since i was 12yrs old...Long time well i met someone on a online dating site and decided that if i wanted to stop the abuse i had to do something to leave so i went to meet this person face to face i had been talking to him for a while before hand. We both new we had feelings so when i got time to leave him that day as i had travel over 150 miles to see him, we both burst into tears and i just step on the train to go back to the guy that was horrible to me as i couldn't just stay there i had responsabiltaies to deal with first.. I then recieved a txt message saing I LOVE YOU and i was so shocked i justed want to turn around and go back but i couldn't....sorry so long..
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19 Jul 07
Kate, that was very romantic with sad memory(that you had to part with him on the day the "love" came out)....i can easily imagine the day... i could make a movie...lol...i hope you're with him now...
19 Jul 07
no problem JD. I'll get You and Kate+Bf a VIP seat... he he he...
19 Jul 07
everything you need..!..lol..
@rinkeshj (18)
• India
28 Dec 07
this was a good moment in my life. it was she who relped to my question! i wasn't to reply since i was a shy person. I asked indirectly to her that is there any person whom u like and would say yes to his perposal! she told yes! than she asked me same question! i aslo replied same! then i asked whose that person then she told my name! it was great to hear that!
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@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
It was my ex who said i love you first over the phone, he can't say it in person because he was so shy courting me. He even sent me letters but anonymously.
20 Jul 07
that is one supershy boyfriend...lol..
@xiuluoelly (1224)
• China
19 Jul 07
I and my boyfriend to the day, only one said "I love you",I said, that night,the sky is beautiful.He was drunk and cuddle like a child in my arms crying,I could not help but say"I love you"
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19 Jul 07
romantic in a unique way.... Did he understood what you were saying that night? Cause if not - it'll be a waste of you to say those wonderful words...
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
19 Jul 07
My boyfriend of eleven years was the one to say it first and I didn't say it back. That has gone on for several years. He has probably said it a dozen times over the years but only once did I say it. It was over the phone about 8 years into the relationship. I was away for a few days with our son who was having surgery far away from home. After the surgery I called to check on the other kids and tell them everything went okay. I was emotional (have to be tough before surgery) and it was the first time I was away from the other childern and I told him I loved him. I guess it meant a ton to him because he brings it up saying, that was when he knew how much I cared. He never was sure before that.
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20 Jul 07
it came out naturally and honestly. what else could he expect to hear but those strong words of yours. very romantic and meant a lot. hope your kids are in great shape now, Vicki. Have a nice evening!
• Indonesia
18 Jul 07
it always him. I've been get involved dor 3 times and it's always him who said that. For me, i won't say it first because i'm a girl.i don't know maybe i'm an old fashion person in this case. And always face to face. I don't appreciate if a man say it through letter or sms or email or phone or something. It has to be said directly.
19 Jul 07
yes, a little old fashion, natural and traditional in a sense but sounds good because the guy had to be a gentleman, right?