To hang with friends, or NOT to hang with friends, that is the question.

@magikrose (5423)
United States
July 18, 2007 7:55am CST
For those who know me here they know I am happily married for the most part. My husband is the jelous kind no matter who I am hanging with. Well I have a friend that I have known since elementary and I havent seen him in just over 8yrs. He is staying with my neighbor for a while cause his wife wants to try a trial seperation. I Have been hanging out with him in my own yard cause I live in a small appartment building and we share a yard. My husband is not a very positive person and that drives me nuts because I am a positive person. I am always looking for the brighter side of things. MY friend is the same way as I am and he is very energetic unlike my husband. I love going outside when my friend is outside because he is always giving off positive energy and he is a load of fun. He is basically a really big kid who knows when to be an adult. My husband is always arround and knows everything that is going on and even participates in the fun. Actually yesterday he was playing catch with a football with my friend and having a good time too. We all were. My question to all of my friends and the mylot community is this. Do you think it is wrong to want to be arround this positive energy and fun?
1 response
@Marie2473 (8519)
• Sweden
18 Jul 07
Even if you are married you are intitled to haev friends , and have some fun and positive energy around you. I do not see nything wrong with this as all. I do think that even if you gave up on everything your husband would find something else to make him insecure.
@magikrose (5423)
• United States
18 Jul 07
You are right no matter what happins he does find things that make him feel insecure. Even my female friends make him feel insecure.