How do you deal with having friends you can't count on ???

United States
July 18, 2007 11:18pm CST
I am in a situation where I have a friend I just can't count on. We have been friends since we were in first grade together. I was there for her through anything and everything and she was for me. Recently her dad died and I was there for her in every way. Holding her hand and crying for her. I didn't leave her side through the day of her dad's funeral. Then a couple weeks ago when I thought me and my b/f were splitting up I called her, but she wouldn't answer her phone. I left her this hysterical messege as I was crying uncontrolably. She never called me back. I even left her a messege on another site for her to call me and to let her know me and my b/f were still together, but I haven't heard a word from her. What would any of you do in this situation? Would you just not talk to your friend anymore? I have always tried to be the best friend I can to any of my friends and to always be there for them when they need me. Right now I'm re-thinking my friendship with her. Her and her mom are friends with my b/f and they won't even talk to him anymore. I find it odd that friends would be this way.
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@tuffy999 (794)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
maybe she's having problems too or she just want to be left alone for awhile after her dad passed away. give her time or maybe you go visit her, she might in alot more trouble than you.
• Philippines
28 Jul 07
As far as I am concerned, I am the type of friend who tries to be nice, reliable and caring to people I treat as friends. So, it was very frustrating if I should find out that I have a friend whom I cant count on. If I really think she is not worth to be treated special, I will try to stay civil with her but I wouldnt be exerting too much effort for her anymore like before.