Should you take risk and fight for love?

Philippines
July 23, 2007 3:47am CST
Do you think when everyone is against to the love you're fighting for, of loving someone, should you continue fighting for it or just let go of the feelings?...
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@zaichn (319)
• Philippines
23 Jul 07
It really depends if the one you love is worth fighting for.. Just like me.. I'll share a short summary of what happened to me and everything about taking risks and fighting for love.. I'm now in my 2nd year in college.. I met her when we were still in grade 7. (2002) I already had a crush on her the first time I saw her. We became close just as the school year is about to end. Exactly on Valentine's Day, I just woke up realizing that I already love her.. so much! (2/14/2003) It was the first time that I felt it, I didn't know what to do. So, I told her directly how I feel and I want us to be more than just close friends. She was so surprised. Our friendship fell apart. We never spoke to each other for 4 years.. Since my mom and dad transfered to another place miles away. I was forced to leave town and my one true love.. But not until... Last December 29, 2006, our classmate had her debut party. I already had a girlfriend, we dated since Aug.15,03 How ironic is that... I sat beside my gf, not realizing that across me is the girl whom I loved so much. my first love.. I couldn't breathe well. My heart is pounding.. It was not the greatest feeling but I do miss her a lot even though my gf is sitting right beside me.. I had to talk with my first love.. and we did. In my heart, I really do love her so much up to this time. But after the talk, I realized that I can never ever have her.. She can never be mine.. And then it hit me, it's over.. I cried several nights We even argued with my girlfriend about it. A few months after, I have moved on. I still feel for her (my first love) But it's just not as strong.. I wrote a farewell letter to her, but I never gave her the letter since there's no use.. I've nothing else to say now.. Everything I felt for her.. Can now just fade away.. _____________________ Sorry for the very long answer. It's true.. It did happened to me.. It sucks but letting go is the right thing to do. And besides, I'm lucky with my girlfriend. And I love my gf more than I used to.