how to not be too forward... / myLot

July 23, 2007 4:32pm CST

ok, i have a mini dialemma... and i was hoping that maybe someone here at mylot might be able to give some suggestions as to what i sould do. i find a friend of my brother atrractive and i just don't know how to let him know without being too forward. i am not an overy shy person, but i believe that a guy should ultimately make the first move, i do flirt with him, and he flirts with me, but nothing is comming of it... why? we have been spending a fair amount of time together lately, and i am getting to the point where i just wish he would grab me lol, but no luck on my part! am i not giving off the right signals? or do i need to be the one to make the first move?? i've never had this happen before... any ideas?

1 response

whywiki

@whywiki (6066)

• Canada

23 Jul 07

I think you will probably have to make the first move as I think brothers and their friends have a secret code and they aren't allowed to go after sisters.

@bobbyjoe143 (1287)

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24 Jul 07

i am 27 and when i was younger my brother had no problem with me dating his mates, so i can't see why it would bother him now lol. but i do see you point, perhaps his friend doesn't realise that my brother wouldn't say or do anything about it.