are you friends?....with your ex(es)
By rabejuela
@rabejuela (20)
Philippines
July 25, 2007 10:20pm CST
Are you friends with your ex(es)?...well, of course yes because there is nothing wrong with staying friends with them.You just need time to heal first then get over him/her and after that forgive and forget. Besides you can't deny the fact that you've shared some memories (sad and happy) with them. He/she has been part of your life whether you like it or not. And if ever you've been badly hurt...as what i've said earlier, just give yourself a time to heal, maybe not totally but at least 1/2 of your heart or more than 1/2 coz by that time you will then see life in a different ways and you can find in your heart to forgive and save the friendship. Unless you're the unforgiving type of person then that's a different story. Also if you will remain friends with them then they will probably think twice if they made the right decision or not and then they can't brag with their friends that you're head over heels in love with them coz as to what they can see you're okay.
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@charmaine_kyut (12)
• Philippines
27 Jul 07
yes of course...because he/she is part of your lyf..even if he/she hurt you a lot...ders nothing wrong if you make friends with your ex...his only a past....
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@diannebcrs (1549)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
I guess that depends on both your intentions. Some ex(es) make friends with you, thinking and hoping that they'll be given another chance.
And in our case, if we still love our ex, we don't want to cut the connection so we try and make friends with them again, thinking and hoping of getting back together. But that depends again. Even if we still love our ex but we are willing to move on, I don't think that making friends with them again is such a good idea.. Perhaps if we've totally moved on - we can open ourselves to the idea of making friends with them.
God bless!
