What will you do if your best friend have an illicit affair?

I had a friend who had an affair, and it was painful to see her in that situation,like you I did not bother to say anyhting against her or her affair but i prayed for her. Good thing,she's out of it now.

Yes, if your best friend is an adult, you can't really say anything because her life is her own and I don't think we have a right to try to run our friends lives. That's intrusive and none of our business. And besides, if its your best friend, she's going to know what you think about the illicit affair anyway.

I would offer my advice but leave it at that as anything else would be interfering in the private lives of adults blessed be

My bestfriend is separated from his wife, and he is actually wooing one of my friends. He is trying to make her agree to have a bf-gf relationship with him, and the girl doesn't want to, since, he's still technically married. I of course told him to iron out his mess with his wife first before he starts looking for another girlfriend. It would still be considered an illicit affair, if the girl agrees, since in the eyes of the law, he is legally married.

i will talk to her the pros and cons of her action. and let her decide.

I have someone very close to me who is having an affair with someone I HATE. He is a liar and a jerk. But what can I do? I know she knows how I feel but I don't say too much. If she asks, I will tell her that I think 1) having an affair is going to hurt her kids (I am not as concerned about her husband. he's a mean SOB.) and 2) This guy is a jerk and possibly could end up hurting her (for real). Now I know he is coming here next week and she asked me to babysit. I just can't. I won't judge her but I won't sit with her kids while she is with that guy either. If that makes me a bad person, so be it.