can't help but feel sad... my hubby's gonna go abroad =(

@tantal25 (839)
United States
July 30, 2007 10:35am CST
i really can't help but to feel sad because my hubby's gonna go abroad... i really cried earlier... its not that i am scared he'll leave me, its just that, i used to be with him as always =( maybe its because we're always together.. but the fact that he's gonna leave soon hurts me =( he needed to go abroad to work, he said its for our future.. yeah i know.. i guess, i should be used to it.. that we're far away from each other... i am so sad right now =(
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@dpk262006 (56217)
• Delhi, India
2 Aug 07
Dear, please do not be so disheartened and feel disappointed...I think your hubby has gone abroad for securing your future and for earning handsomely. You should remember that " to get something..you will have to lose something". So your sacrifice, I hope, will not go waste. Be patient, and keep in touch with him...through channels of communication available with you and him. Best of Luck!
@tantal25 (839)
• United States
4 Aug 07
yeah, he was just securing our future.. thanks for the wonderful advice deepak.. yeah to get something we have to lose something... thanks once again =)
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@dpk262006 (56217)
• Delhi, India
4 Aug 07
Kristal, you are always welcome! I think, being friend, this much we can do for each other...when we are sad or in trouble...we can always discuss these feelings with our friends and this we feel better. Thanks for liking my response and advice. :) :)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
i know its hard. i can relate because my husband works abroad, too. evrytime he comes home its always a celebration of happiness but, when its time for him to leave again, my heart is always filled with sadness for i will be missing him. as they say time heals all wounds so, i just wait for the moment when i will get used to it.
@tantal25 (839)
• United States
2 Aug 07
yeah it is hard really... i guess i'll experience that too, that its very exciting when he's gonna go home for a vacation but its sad when he's gonna go back again =(
@Rhomen (16)
• Philippines
31 Jul 07
its ok....he seed its our future dont be so sad think like them closed to you like u do each other.....think the happeness,you been together think the laughter that you share....dont be so sad life its so short....i know he also feels like u feel...but you must do the task....
@tantal25 (839)
• United States
1 Aug 07
thanks for responding rhomen.. much appreciated... i'd do ur advice...
@diillu (5128)
31 Jul 07
I totally can understand. Me and partner we are staying together. And it's like we are together almost 24 hours a day. Whenever he goes out for little bit of fun with his friends I feel so sad. And when he goes out of city for the couple of bussiness work I just get so lonely. I think I'm so used to him, seeing him, being with him that I really can't stay alone. It's not that I don't have friends but I can enjoy with my friends if he's around. If he's not that it's really sad thing for me.
@tantal25 (839)
• United States
1 Aug 07
well we are a like, i am with my hubby almost 24 hours a day... and it sucks that he'll be gone for a while... but i guess i'd get by.. besides its for our future...
@dimaks (786)
• Japan
31 Jul 07
Well, in this life we need sacrifices, understanding and patience. Being away with your love one is within this course. Personally, I can relate to this. I am also away from my family right now and i know how missing is about. But as I said, sacrifice and understanding. Add to this is the faith and trust. But anyway, your husband has a noble purpose - the future of both of you and you future family.
@tantal25 (839)
• United States
1 Aug 07
yeah, i guess we need to sacrifice... thanks for responding
@kudeshi (529)
• India
30 Jul 07
Hey buddy cheer up. Maybe later you can go and visit him once in a while.
@tantal25 (839)
• United States
31 Jul 07
i hope i could kudeshi, but i can't... and that's really sad.. anyway, thanks for the support.. happy posting
• China
2 Aug 07
Enjoy everyday,girl.He is not whole world.All you need is time.Time will help you adapt to new life.
@cefaz_21 (2597)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
I cannot say I know how you feel and I know how hard because I admit I really do not know how hard it is, my bestfriends husband is also working abroad as well as my siters' hubby andthey said it is indeed hard. You can get by for sure and you'll get used to it but it can be a long process. missing someone so badly is not easy.. hope you recover soon.