friends romance and relationship. cheating.

United States
July 31, 2007 3:07am CST
I have a simple question would any of you ever forgive your best friend for sleeping with your husband if she called and apologized?
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@sunkissed (4332)
• United States
3 Aug 07
I do not really know if I could forgive my best friend for sleeping with my husband or not. I do not think best friends should ever betray you like this. I would have to think long and hard on this one. If I could ever forgive her, she would never be a best friend again, and I would never be able to trust her. If you can not trust her with your husband what can you trust her with?If she would betray you once she would do it again. So I think I would have to just live her as a aquaintance.
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• United States
3 Aug 07
I agree with you on that subject. If you can no longer trust your bestfriend it changes the whole friendship and with that big of a betrayl I would have always been looking for where she might put a second knife in my back. But I not only got left her to herself I let the husband leave too. they can have eachother...What you do once you do twice. There for no trust at all .....
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@sunkissed (4332)
• United States
3 Aug 07
You are right about that, she can not be trusted, And if she did it to the first husband she would do it with the next. But You were wise to let him go too, they deserve one another, but I bet they are not together now!! It does take two, they were both to blame..You are better off with out both of them in your life.
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• United States
3 Aug 07
Actually he contacted my about 2 months ago when he ended their relationship which really wan't one from what I know he stated that he was the other guy... She had moved someone into her house and was still with him. The reason he contacted me was to give me the divorce information..or so he says I can never trust him and his intentions...
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• United States
31 Jul 07
I don't believe this is a simple question. I would find it very difficult to forgive my best friend but not out of the question. There would have to be alot more than a phone call to make that happen. Not only one person betrayed you but two that are close to your heart. I believe forgiveness can be accomplished but not without alot of work on everyones part to help regain the trust that is lost.
• United States
31 Jul 07
This happened about 7 1/2 yrs ago and she called once and I said I would call back but just couldn't bring myself to talk to her ever agian. I think what bothers me the most is I can't figure out what I did to her to make her turn on me like that or be pissed enough to hurt me like that. And when I asked she wouldn't anser with a straight answer it was an I don't know.. My ex said it was because I had him. I don't know if I could take his answer to be honest...
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