"How can i make this long-distance relationship worked?" ....

@anjoks (2084)
Philippines
August 1, 2007 11:00am CST
My boyfriend and i are currently away from each other and will take months i dunno till we'll be together again. I'm having these rough stage in my life right now, i dont know if i'll still be able to hang on or what. I think i'm heading towards the wrong path these days and as much as i want to put myself everything on the right track again, seems like a tail of worries and confusion is still on my back and following me. I need advices to enlighten my mind and spirit. :(
5 responses
@sksingh (1413)
• Germany
1 Aug 07
be frank to ur boyfriend, and advice him to do same.and learn some good culture from India
@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
I'm aware that your culture values relationships and marriage so much and we filipinos value that even more. That is very important... Things just come our way that sometimes we just cant handle them very well, as much as we are trying to make it smoothly. (",)
@lols189 (4798)
25 Aug 07
aaww anjoks you could maybe move closer together and find a house if that would help and see if things could possibly work out that way or maybe look for another boyfriend my good friend. whatever you decide always be sure to make the right decision
@kreizhy (111)
• Philippines
23 Aug 07
Yeah, its really hard when your love is away, especially when you learned to live beside him. If you really love him, just hang on, I think it will gonna work out. For you to work your relationship, just keep in touch like call each other, send text messages or even send him a letter. Nothing is impossible, it depends on both of you. =)
@fab315 (1244)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
Constant communication is very important if you're in a long-distance relationship. Couple need to communicate whether they're close or far from each other. Keep each other updated of what's going on in your lives and your daily doings, even when you're away from your bf you'll feel that he's close by communicating everyday. Internet is handy now, for you not to miss him? open your webcam, chat to him, you can even talk to him in the internet. Keep the love alive even you're away from each other. Have faith and believe in your relationship. And one thing you should not forget, TRUST in each other. And whenever you have problems talk to him. cheers! :D
@diillu (5130)
1 Aug 07
To work a long distance relationship you really need to be a lot patience and with that you should be hopeful. If you will be loosing hope like this than it is sure that it will be real hard to workout the long distance relationship. All you need to do is keep youe hope open and be patience. Think about the moments when you were together and when you were happy. And you will get little bit of strength.