why can't he choose me? what should be done? I need help

Pakistan
August 1, 2007 9:37pm CST
Hey people. There's a guy I love a lot, but there's some problem. He has a girl friend. He says he loves me too and when I ask him to leave her he says the other girl is way too serious and he just can't leave her cause her reaction would be devastating. He says I should trust him, but that girl believes in him too and I don't know...will he ever leave her ? Or is it going to be me the one he eventually leaves alone :S What do you people think?
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• Philippines
2 Aug 07
I think that if he loves you then he is willing to do everything for you. You have to let him choose. It's either he chooses you or you stay away from him. You can't be in a situation like this forever. If he really loves you, he is willing to break up with that girl without having too many reasons.
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• Pakistan
2 Aug 07
emmm lets see it is a very trickey situation by the ways but i think that there might be some truth in what he says ... cuz if he was flirting with you then he would always lie about his gfs to you or he would have never told u about them or he would have told you that yes i have left her ??? n u had to trust on that to ... but he didnt ???? thus my personal opinion that may be he is telling the truth n will never leave u ...
• Pakistan
2 Aug 07
That may be the case, but why can't he only be mine? Just mine?