do I have substantive grounds for an Annulment re my marriage & pend divorce

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My name is Michael; I am in the middle of a divorce. This was my first marriage at the age of 56. This marriage was very Turbulent and Toxic from the get/go! This marriage lasted about 12 and a half months; and though (Emotionally Overwhelmied( ; i decided to file for a Divorce last November. I was unable to consumate our marriage and, breifly after our marriage began, I lost any desire to even try. I do have some degree of Mental and Emotional D isability and Challenge. I discussed this matter with my wife on several occassions when we were dating breifly before marriage. She was not too concerned; perhaps; as I believe now- because, her primary purpose was to gain/obtain legal status in this country ASAP! I was in a Deep Mental and Emotional fog and was unable to process and fully grasp my situation. (I know I am at fault here.) She quite often became extremly angry and volitile; packing all her possessions on at least 8 to 10 times during our( breif) courtship. Finally, under much pressure, concern and reticense; I agreed to marry her, "Hortensia" - in a civil ceremony at the LA County Courthouse in Norwalk, CA. Her extreme volitle (threatening to leave behavior); unfortunatly continued on several occassions after we married; (often) , on what should have been a (minor) misunderstanding at best. However, simple, honest, and open communication was not and option here and perhaps, never was! Lastly, before we were married; I was overwhelmed, confused and very emotionally distraught !!! I wanted to be rescued; but, was unable to rescue myself ! I prayed and hoped for guidance and, that I was not making a mistake; but, I sure felt uneasy!