In the name of friendship
August 5, 2007 11:27am CST
I have a friend who sometimes act like a baby. I can say that she almost does not care on what will happen to the world. Her world revolves on herself. Her mentallity is fixed that she is happy right now that she has money right now but she does not think about the future. What should I do as a friend to help her mature?
6 Aug 07
i think you should gradually show her that her acts will caus her carelessness and she might hurt some person . . i suggest you go talk to her about this if it really bothers you so much . . cause i have a friend to . . and you should tell her the purpose on why you said it
• United States
5 Aug 07
well to be honest you cant come right out and say anything or it might end up causing a problem but you can try to get her to talk about her plans etc. like talk about what you want to do and see what she thinks about herself. ask what she thinks the world will be like in 10 years. tell her your thoughts it might get her to think about it more. alot depends on your age too. i mean some dont worry about it till they are older. find somehting that you feel strong about like global warming, foster kids, politics, ozone, wetlands, animal rights etc. then look at projects going on and find one you can do and try to get her to help you with it. like maybe raising money for the animal shelter and tell her how strong you feel about it and ask her to help you with it and do it together.