How will a guy usually feel when a girl asks him out?

Philippines
August 6, 2007 12:43am CST
I am most curious about how a guy will feel when a girl asks him out or makes the first move. Will he feel outraged? Flattered? Disgusted? Insulted? Emabarrassed? I have never before asked a guy out - but a certain idea came over me because I am really interested in this one particular guy in class. I think he likes me but he doesn't make any moves yet. So should I? Anyway, back to my topic, how will a normal guy usually feel about the whole situation? Is it a big deal?
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4 responses
• India
7 Aug 07
well i have no probs if a girl makes d 1st move. i mean dont go out and propose in front of the whole class but whenever u ppl r alone. but then again it depends from guy to guy. just try to do one thing, hit on him a little when u guys r alone, chk his reaction, if he seems fine wid it den tell him how u feel
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• India
9 Aug 07
oh if u really wanna do dat den i'll advise u one thing. take a vase and bang it on his head. dat will certainly hit him hard :) anywaz just go for it
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• Philippines
10 Aug 07
ooooooooh! thanks a lot.. hahaha! :D
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• Philippines
9 Aug 07
oh i'd love to hit on him. hahaha.. just kidding. i'd really like to ask him out sooner or later.. :D thanks for the response.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
9 Aug 07
Hi Diannebcrs, in any case I would feel flattered. If it was a girl that I was waiting for the right time to catch alone and ask, I would feel relieved. I cant speak for all guys but for me it takes a certain amount of build up to ask a girl out. I cant just walk up to a girl and ask her out. I guess I'm kind of shy that way. Good luck, Terry
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• Philippines
10 Aug 07
i hope he'll feel flattered then so i won't feel nervous and worried. thanks for the response! :D
@madzie09 (278)
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
there are guys who doesn't like girls who makes the first move.about the way they would feel it alsways depends on their personality.there are actually certain guys that are quite shy and mysterious about their feelings though. how about a group date? i mean him, you, and lots of friends.just to get acquainted with him first and to play safe as well.coz there are also guys who likes to take advantage of the girls'-first-move. just play safe first. there are go signal for that move but if the conclusion's not sure yet, hold back first.
• Philippines
6 Aug 07
You have a point. I guess I'm gonna have to play it safe, then. Thanks for the response. It really helps.
@onlinebiz (119)
• Singapore
7 Aug 07
Today, a girl making the first move is no longer "weird", but it is best for the guy to approach u first cos u will feel more secure ab the whole thing cos he is the one who asked u out first. Sometimes, if a girl makes the first move, the guy may just go out with her for fear of hurting her feelings when he turns the girl down. The guy shouldn't be outraged or disgusted or insulted or even embarrassed cos it is an honor to be approached by a girl! Esp when one is so brave! Maybe u can try making friends first and take things slow, then when u ask for a date it will not be so awkward. Regards, Adrienne http://www.e-marketinghub.com http://www.e-marketing-systems.com
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• Philippines
9 Aug 07
thanks for the advice! :D