Sorry doesn't make a dead man alive
@sudhajosyula50 (3808)
India
August 6, 2007 3:39am CST
I have very close friend.We are friends from childhood.She is very good and kind hearted friend.She never do harm to others.Her nature is very pleasant,she always keep helping others.Make others happy whenever they are crying or feeling sad.But one fine day we went for a picnic.Their we enjoyed a lot with our friends.Among our friends,one friend scolded my close friend and she even hurted her with her brute words which make her very unhappy.My friend cried a lot at that spot by hugging me.I in anger scolded that friend in making my friend feel sad.After sometime,the other friend who scolded my close friend came near to her and said sorry.Then my close friend said a single sentence.
Sorry doesnot make a dead person alive.
She said and went away.Till now the other friend is feeling guilty by her behaviour with my close friend.
So,my advice is not to hurt others and tell them sorry again and again.You are simply change the importance of sorry word.Think about it and share ur thought on this issue.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
7 Aug 07
I learned something very early in life. My parents taught me if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything.. I think this is a perfect example of please think before you speak. No one person should ever hurt another intentionally, I feel that even when you hurt someone the damage is done, you can't take it back. So you have to say your sorry and apologize.. But you don't have to do it until your blue in the face. We are human we are falliable and we make mistakes .. It is up to the person or people we hurt wether or not they accept our apology if they don't we have to accept that we hurt the person and move on..
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@xionglipingxj (31)
• China
6 Aug 07
Yes,sometimes I agree with your friend.Long time ago, one of my friends told me a story about this.She said that a little boy who was always angry with others.His parents want him to get rid of this habit.So his teacher told him that when you wanted to be angry with others,you put a nail into the wall.a week later,the little boy felt happy,because he was not so angry with others.He could hold on.The teacher told him that when you felt guilt ,then you could pull it off.He did it.At last,the teacher said that you could see though you pull them off there were still holes in the wall...can you understand me?
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
29 Aug 07
Yep, the word sorry have changed a lot and nowadays people would say it even if they don't mean it. I think that is just so sad.
@tzvetelina (467)
• Bulgaria
2 Sep 07
Hm...You should say this to people who obviously doesn't really mean saying 'Sorry', not just to anyone who hurts you. A lot of the apologizers feel alwful after a mistake.
@robinhood88 (22)
• Egypt
6 Aug 07
That is right right but it reduse of the pain and also it is help the man to confess the guilt that he have done and i think you will be very gentilman if you accepted his or her apology.
@sudhajosyula50 (3808)
• India
6 Aug 07
yes u are right i also told to my friend,but she is unable to digest her words.So,i am keeping silent and looking for the time.
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