how long can you be without love?

India
August 6, 2007 6:05am CST
it's amazing that sometimes how we can be without love and have to be like that before love smiles our way, for me i haven't found love for about 10 years now. i think i am used to it and know there is surely that i am being told to learn from the HIGH SOURCE. how long can you go on without love ?
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@mara82 (16)
18 Oct 07
I probably know what you mean by you have not found love. Just like everyone said, love is everywhere, from family members to friends. But it seems you talk about the love of a parner, be it a wife, boyfriend or girlfriend or perhaps the love of God. If you talk about a love partner, sometimes we lose them due to different situations, when that happens it seems as if our world is going to end, that is when God comes into play, he brings you someone to guide you thru the difficult times, he shows you love thru that person and most important of all he shows you that, even though you might think you are all alone, God is always loving you and caring for you, no matter how dark the place might be he will always bring a light to brighten your day. I dont think there is a specific time for going without love....it will come to your life when you open your eyes and see God has filled your life with love all this time...if you keep your eyes close, you will miss it... ((HUGS)) Mara
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• India
18 Oct 07
thankyou mara, you are simply amazing. your thoughts are really significant to me and you know that . love always, apple. you are awesome.and i mean that.
• Algeria
13 Aug 07
Love is everywhere. Life runs with the fuel of love. Fill your tank, ride your Applecart Ronnie.
• India
13 Aug 07
i wish lisa. let me find some fuel. love, apple. you are a cutie.
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• India
13 Aug 07
the problem is i am a very frank person and in the wrong place, that is india, where people are introverts, i have to find my match or be in U.S. but my tank is open, it is. ronnie.
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• Algeria
13 Aug 07
Open up your tank, fuel will flow to fill you. Thanks:)
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
27 Dec 07
well, there was a time back I was like you, and personally thought Love would never come as welll. I just learned to be proactive, and decide on what I really wanted, and not settle for anything less. I am now Happily Married, and very much so, but I know people who are alone all of their life, and always looking. You just need to remember not to Rush it, and be sure you know what you are wanting, and then go from there. If like me, the right one might come along for you, when you least expect it.
@kyutstudph (1263)
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
Hi applecartronnie! I think love is everywhere. We can feel love from our family, friends, relatives, wife or husband and lots more. You can even find love from your friends here in mylot. Even this is virtual but the love for friends is still mingles here in my heart. I didnt grow up with my parents that's why I am longing for it. But I know I have lots of friends who will be there for me in times of ups and downs. I cant answer your question on how long I can go without love? because I think I cant live without it. Cheer up my friend! I know that God loves you. God loves all of us. I wish you more love and happiness. Keep going! Be strong! God bless always!
• India
8 Aug 07
thankyou for your great response. it is the strength that keeps us going and the faith that makes as grow. what would we do without love, as you said correctly, love is every where and i am amazd it exists at mylot, lets all pray that this love grows every minute here and every where not by cents but by millions of dollars every minute. a message like that comes from a person of strength and faith only, if i can add to that in any way, i am always here. love, pprayers and best wishes, apple.
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@3lilangels (4639)
• United States
13 Aug 07
love is everywhere you go,i have love of my family,friends,and ofcourse my 3 beautiful babies.and the love here on mylot grows each day too.the people here are so warming and caring,and its so nice to see that.but when you do find that love,hold on to it,as long as you can.it will come your way,when you least expect it.its always when your not looking it will come.take care
• United States
13 Aug 07
just try not to expect as much,close your eyes and boom it will be there.hehe.it will come,those things come to those who wait.i have always been told that when i was a kid.i always wondered what about my time,when will it come.and my parents kept telling me just wait your time will come.it does work.takes time.just hold on.
• India
13 Aug 07
love is everwhere. right. and right with saying love strikes when one least expects. maybe that is my prob. i expect it so often, hehe. thanks for your niceness,apple.
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• India
15 Aug 07
i am holding on i am holding on. hey GOD love me more.
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@anys1972 (22)
• Indonesia
11 Jan 08
I cannot imagine if life without love. Since childhood say always encircled by people who to love me. I have a husband and a a real boy loves sayaSaya have time to feel life like in hell when clashing with my husband .So husband think love was anything for all .Its lie if there are people can live without love
@SONALIKA (573)
• India
11 Dec 07
what sort of love are u talking about?love of parents,friends,siblings or is it love of soul mate.god never sends us empty handed,u see.haath hmesha bhare hue aur band hote hain.the problem is we always think about what we don't have and this thing stops us from thinking about all nice things n people in our lives.i can't live without love because i know i give it and others have it for me.so i demand it,arree bhai apno se mangne main kaisi sharam,hai na? maange bina aur jtaye bina kuchh nhi milta.koi kisi dil main thodi na ghus kr pta kr skta hai ki dusre ko kya chahiye unless and until you have really good understanding aur vo bhi to time ke saath bnti hai