How to face my friends while i provide for myself?

@wasons (302)
China
August 9, 2007 8:18am CST
I was considered to be an excellent student in my schoolhood,many people think i would have a great future,but after i graduated from college,i had to work at the company which paid me few.many friends of mine were successful as they had a good job or a good family,when my friends talked about my job,i always kept silent,and i was shameful to take part in any part with my friends.nowadays,i have losen my job for half a year,it is impossible for my to make any cintact with my friends.how to face my friends?
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@purple99 (165)
• China
24 Aug 07
Don't worry,my friend!I think each people have the fate of their own.I guess it enables you gain the work experience.Althought your friends had a good job now,it is good in their's future?May be they laughed at you,but look,who will surely laugh last? Don't give up hope,keep on trying!
@wasons (302)
• China
24 Aug 07
thank you for your response.so far i haven't got a job,and it is hard to face my friend,i can only say it online,but now i am fine,thank you!when i was a child i thought i am not a normal man,and i will try hard to becaome a great man!
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
3 Sep 07
you're not alone in this wasons. i too was an above-average student back in school and a lot of people expected me to have a good job. some people think i really do have a good job right now but im not sure about that. i dont really know what they think. coz i know they have high expectations of me and i havent reached the half of it. but hey, dont be bothered about it. as long as you're doing your best to improve yourself then there's nothing to be ashamed of. and besides, you cant please everybody and you dont live just to please everybody. have fun with your job, continue looking for great opportunities, and as long as you're not hurting anybody, then you're just doing fine. ^__^