bridesmaid

United States
August 9, 2007 6:36pm CST
I'm so excited my cousin who I use to be close to but we grew apart thanks to my step sister asked me to stand in her wedding. We have been in touch but things are not the same. I'm still hurt that she accused me of saying something that I didn't but my step sister put that in her head.
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@twysted (54)
• United States
27 Dec 07
Belated Congrats! hope it all worked out for ya
@squaretile (3833)
• Singapore
10 Aug 07
well, if you are close to your cousin and care for her, and are happy for her wedding, then go ahead! things might not be the same again but surely you can move on from past hurts. we all have those. one of my favourite sayings is that whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. hope you enjoy being bridesmaid and keep us informed here on mylot of how it goes!
@archer1811 (1099)
• Philippines
10 Aug 07
Well at least my inviting you on her wedding day and choosing you as one of her sponsors only shows that he maybe forgot things that happen between you, of course if she still angry with you and dont forgive you yet she wont choose you as one of her sponsors, well forget the past and prepare yourself for the wedding day of your cousin so that you look beautiful and not stressed that day, and maybe your cousin will realize lately that a short story can be a long one if it is passed with people to people, it can never be the original story anymore, some people maybe added words or miswords out of it, so it is still better to listen the story from the person where it originally came from... Good luck to your cousin and best wishes, for you cheer up and have a beauty rest to make you more beautiful in that day.
@mari_skye (1638)
• Philippines
10 Aug 07
I guess since your cousin has asked you to participate in her wedding, it means that she has moved on and forgot all about that 'thing' that happened to your relationship. But I also understand that you want to set things straight. If that is the case, then I think you should talk to your cousin about it, say that you just want to clear things.
@rinaaus (1203)
• Australia
10 Aug 07
Oh why you are hurt by words of someone else? Words don't have a power to change the truth. If you did not saying something as you said, no need to explain anything because it is the true. What you cousin accussed you do not change the true that you did not say ... So free of hurt, and be close to your cousins.