Rape experience: any men got raped?
By nickventere
@nickventere (1420)
Zambia
August 11, 2007 7:41am CST
I'm yet to meet or hear from a man who has been raped before. I think it would be very enlightening to get first-hand testimony of such an ordeal.
Are there any men in here that were raped in their lifetime? How did you handle it? And just how did it happen?
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2 responses
@maildumpster (3815)
• United States
17 Aug 07
My husband says he was sexually molested by a babysitter but never told me any more than that. I have no idea what he experienced.
@wolves69 (755)
• United States
15 Aug 07
Me? No
But I was an investigator for 5 years, and investigated three male rapes. One was an all out lie to cover up another crime (think mugger with a mask), while the other two the topic came out during an interview. Both individuals were raped as boys or young men, both were raped by their family members--repeatedly. One didn't know better and just let it happen and the other sacrificed himself for his younger brothers and sisters. As both got older, they felt sad, ashamed, and humiliated. It took them nearly 30-40 years to tell anyone. Talk about an emotional rollercoster.
