when can you say that one is a FRIEND and the other is a FRAUD?

Philippines
August 11, 2007 7:56am CST
Sometimes, we label by mistake those people as "friends" because of too much trust but in the end, they are just a bunch of good for nothing opportunistic people who deceive you by talking behind your back, to think that they befriended you only at times when they feel wanting your company or when they needed something out from you. I am not an egoistic kind of person and I dont keep grudges against anyone. As far as I'm concern, I am into childish stuffs and those stupidity in me are, by far, my means of making myself feel happy. Others may consider it as a bully act, few tolerate it because it is either they just don't mind it or they knew those are only jokes to break the monotony of the school-oriented atmosphere and I say "thanks" to the few people who fall under the latter category. I am not really into emotional things. I hate too much drama. I am a good listener though sometimes it's not that obvious. I tend to throw out to oblivion things that may make me feel depressed yet it's hard to just set it aside if those comments came from those people who I considered my friends... Or so I thought they were... I don't need to prove myself to someone or to anybody if they are not worth my time. I will not submit myself to do something that will just quench the thirst of those ill-people's curiosity..Anyways, if I'll continue to stick in this lose-lose situation, I am just helping the many others who only wants my demise.. better to move on and see this in an another perspective. Since this impediment already existed, it's best to take it to my advantage. Because of this, I am able to seek the few good mangoes out from a basket of rotten ones. In the end, it's one's choice to be happy and I chose to be happy in spite of the many ill-people with crab mentality out there waiting for someone's life to scourge upon..:) PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR IDEAS... :)thanks
1 response
• Italy
11 Aug 07
i must say that in my opinion friends doesn't exist really!! they only use you and when they don't need you they abbandonned you!! so i don't believe in a real friendship!!
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• Philippines
11 Aug 07
Thanks for the comment.:) appreciate it! Most of the time, my friends come to me because they needed my help or they want something from me. And when they're done with me, they just leave me all alone. Sometimes, I am angry at them and disappointed but most of the time, they are the only ones that I turn to when I am lonely and when I needed someone to talk to.. :) take care