You love him more or he loves you more

China
August 15, 2007 9:50pm CST
Now I'm working in the same company with my boyfriend. He complained he has no freedom. But I thought if two people loves each other, they should be glad to stay all the time.I think he doesn't love me so much~~~.
6 responses
• Philippines
23 Aug 07
well..there is such a thing as too much closeness..and we all know that having too much of something will eventually turn out to become a catastrophe. learn how to live separate lives. that way, you'll miss each other and you'll relish every single moment of being together more.
• China
24 Aug 07
But how about if two people havn't so much commont topics to discuss?
@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
16 Aug 07
Somehow i think this is a common arguessive topic among couples... I always think i love my bf more then he loves me too... I guess sometimes... Guys tends to have this ego and wans freedom more... They think they are trapped if their gf are always besides them... Talk to ur guys what u r feeling... Things might work better that way... =)
• China
17 Aug 07
Yes, I completely agree what you said. But it's hard to change our own opinion.
@ravinskye (8242)
• United States
16 Aug 07
i feel your pain. i feel the same way about my husband. i would do anything for him and i always want to spend time with him. he makes that seem like a bad thing. i try to be supportive but its hard when i don't feel that coming back from him. he doesn't show me the same respect i show him. i fear that ultimately that is going to be our downfall.
• China
16 Aug 07
Hugs to you~! I think we should discuss with our husband or boyfriend. Why does he marry you since he loves you so little? Have you ever discussed about this before? What's he response? Is there any attraction on you? Maybe we should search for the problems on ourselfs.
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
that must've caused you alot of pain...i don't think it means that he doesn't love you...maybe he only wants a lil personal space...but what do you mean when he complained about losing his freedom?
@mrsbrian (1951)
• United States
16 Aug 07
I dont think that it is that he dosnt love you, everyone needs space even tho you dont think you do. it is not healthy for a relationship to be together all the time. having time apart allows a person to be themself and bring new things and thoughts home
@pamcake (276)
• United States
16 Aug 07
I don't think it means he doesn't love you as much. It's good to want to spend time together, but it can put lots of stress on a relationship if someome feels smothered. It's perfectly fine to not want to be around each other all the time. I work for my fiance's company, and sometimes I feel like he's stressing me out, but it's just because I'm not getting the me time. Him on the other hand....he wants to be around me 24/7.