How do you feel when love turn into deep hate?

@subha12 (18441)
India
August 17, 2007 1:37am CST
I know how most of us feel. We feel devastated. Say one fine morning out of the blue, that operson calls you and abuse you of the things that you are really completely unaware of. Then say lets don't keep any contact. At first you feel devastated, want to cry out loud. But after some time do you want that person to be punished or come back you? For me I will never contact that person and will always hate till I go to grave. What about you all? Pls share your views..
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7 responses
@anonymili (3138)
22 Aug 07
Firstly dear Subha let me say that I feel bad for you that you are going through this and I hope you have no lasting emotional damage from this breakup. I will, however, say that things will get better with time. Honestly, time is a great healer and although it might seem like light worthless words right now, each day that passes the pain should lessen till in some weeks or months or years (hope not that long) time you will wonder why you ever thought you hated that person at all. Time is a great healer and you must not let this setback dictate the rest of your life nor spoil it. You are worth more than that. Take things easy. Do some fun things with your time and catch up with friends, life will seem better soon. xx
• China
18 Aug 07
I will tell myself to forget it, because it's good for myself. But, most of time I cann't do it. I cann't control myself. I will suddely remember it. And then it will make me unhappy.
• India
17 Aug 07
well thats very annoying its like killing oneself......... (m talking in case of real love)
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
17 Aug 07
if love turns into deep hate then walk away and try to forgive. Dont choose to stay just because you want to revenge. Move on with your lifew and be thankful that atleast you are already free and that he could not hurt you anymore because of love. Find what is really for you and be happy.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
17 Aug 07
Hi subha12! When I was so much younger, I had fallen in love for the first time. I loved him so much but it turned out sour after a year of being together. That has left me devastated and so weak that I do not have anymore will to live. However, I got over it but I hated him and everytime I see him, I wanted to hurt him so bad. I wantedhim to beg on his knees asking for forgiveness but of course that didn't happened. I guess, now that I am older and has found my true love, I have learn to accept and forgive that certain pain and betrayal in my life. Have a nice day and take care.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
17 Aug 07
I have had this happen to me and my first initial reaction is to be mad and hateful towards the person accusing me of something I didn't do...But I'm also a caring and forgiving person if they were to come to me later and say I didn't mean to go off the handle I should of handled it differently and asked if you said the things I heard you said..But I only believe in 3 chances if it continues and they still don't get it that they can ask instead of accuse then the friendship is not worth it to me to sweat about it...I honestly think if it is something that will continue over and over and over again they really were not a friend to begin with...That is just me though that is how I handle that type of situation smiles hugzzzz
@2babita (1072)
• India
17 Aug 07
Well friend,I will also do that person the way that person devastated me but not the way that person did it.I will call that person in a resturant giving a nice treat and than I will cooly say I hate you.I am not the god to punish that person will get punish by god today or tomorrow.