Do you know what your spouse is doing right now?
22 Aug 07
It is impossible to know what my spouse is doing all the time. But I learn to trust him as long as he keeps his words and being honest with me. I am grateful that my husband tells me if he's going to be a bit late from work. He also tells me about almost everything, except for work related matters he doesn't describe in complete details, as I am not interested to know about it either. But we often talk to each other about what happened at his workplace and I think I can trust him.
• United States
22 Aug 07
I think there is a lot more I can know about my spouse. Even he admits there are things in his past he doesn't want to talk about - but he was enlisted so I can understand somethings. However, since he works nights, he sleeps days so he has no time to do anything! He goes out on the weekends to shop - he does the groceries, otherwise we're together. Usually doing our own thing - me mylot or reading/writing - playing with baby - and him xbox and ps2 or homework and web research. He is usually home by 12 am from work - if not its because I asked him to pick something up. If I didn't trust him I'd ask, if I still didn't trust, I'd likely leave. I feel trust is the basis to relationships - even friendships. If he was rude like you said - I wouldnt't take it. I don't fight though, I let my mate know why I'm happy a few times and if it continues, I leave.
• New Zealand
19 Aug 07
Hi there. To be honest, right now my husband is lounging on the couch with our son, they are watching something on The National Geographic Channel... We have an awsome family orientated and mutual relationship, with loads of love and understanding... We both know each other well enough, over 12 years of it... In that time we've learnt to love, respect, trust and understand each other to a T... We're quiet happy with the lives we lead...