why don't i have any male friends?

best friends - can a girl and a boy be best friends?
Turkey
August 20, 2007 6:36am CST
i am a female and i have always suffered of not having any male friends. i believe that they can be really good friends and sometimes girly stuff can make you tired you know. and it is important for the healthy of the friendships i guess, i mean to have another opinion about some issues would be nice. but unfortunately i couldn't manage to have a male friend yet. i don't know what the problem is but somehow that connection can't be built. am i a little too "female"? or do they just turn me down? is there any guideline for this?
3 responses
• China
20 Aug 07
i have the same feeling with you. i have rare male friends, who i can really rely on.i always consider this very pitable. female's world and male's are quite different.i want to konw them much better... but anyhow, don't be upset and worried, perhaps you should make more female friends in different ways ,taking the initiative. i think no man can refuse the pleasure that a woman gives. believe yourself,and keep trying! good luck to you!^0^
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
20 Aug 07
i'm a female, too. when i was a single, i had many male friends, i knew they like me, but i took them as freinds. But now i have only few male friends and all of them have girlfriends. and we get well along with each other. I think it is ok, why should i have lots of male friends? and it is not necessary for me. I'm very lucky to find my Mr.Right, and now i think it is enough for me to live with him. my parents , my little brother and my lover are enough.
@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
20 Aug 07
I don't think there are any guide lines to have any kind of friend. I have both male and female friends. I think you should be yourself and if it happens it happens. If not I don't think it is a big deal.